so sad, what am I suppose to say??

My sister recently found out she was pregnant. Just like 2 days ago. She was so excited. First time she was ever pregnant and she had a miscarriage tonight. I don't know what to say or do. She called me crying saying how unfair it was to actually have to see you "loose" your baby. It broke my heart. Any ladies that have been through this and have either a website for support or something that I can do or say besides I'm sorry I love you and am here to talk when you want it. I need any advice. Everyone is so upset and I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP!

thanks,
Brooke

PS Have been dealing with this and other issues of my own so sorry I havent been around in a couple days.

Oh Brooke! I am so sorry for your sister and for your entire family. There are no words really, but just know that I am here if you, or she needs anything at all. Please let her know that I am thinking about her and praying for her. What a horrible thing to have happen. My heart truly goes out for her!

Keep being the awesome sister that you are. I am sure she knows that you love her, support her and are there for her!

Love ya!

thanks Theresa. It was not planned, but she really got excited. I will let her know you are thinking of her. She is just so upset it breaks my heart. I wish I could go through it for her instead. My poor baby sister.

my heart breaks for her as well. thanks for passing on my message. if you need anything, just call me!

Brooke Prayer going out to your sister and you tonight how sad I know you are sad too this is a hard time for your sister and you and family You all are in my thoughts and prayers sending hugs.

Sorry to hear this bad news, I know what your sister is going through, I was 6 months preg. and the baby stopped growing and died inside me. I was devasted.  The doctors tried to console me saying you are young and you can have other children but who wants to hear that when you just lost a baby.  It was my first child and then 4 years later I had a perfect normal son . I don't know why I loss the child but my faith got me through it, and the prayers of others and talking it through with my hubby. I will definitely keep your sister and you all before the Lord, for this is where your strength comes from. 
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thanks so much ladies. I just wish I could take her pain away. She is so upset. She went to stay at my moms tonight. I am going to go over tomorrow and clean up the mess. I guess its pretty bad and I don't want her to have to do that. This has been hard enough on her. I appreciate everyones love and support. Especially the prayers. We are a very faithful family and know God is going to help her heal. I never knew so many people miscarried. I was blessed in that matter. Thanks everyone

There really isn't anything to say except what you have said.  This is one of those hard times where there really aren't right words.  Just be there for her.  You guys are in my thoughts & prayers.

thank you Court. Was hoping there was a magic pill I could give her. I knew in my heart there wasn't.

I know.  My sister had a miscarriage a few years ago & it was so hard.  I wanted to be able to take care of her & take all the pain away but there was nothing to do.