Thank you ALL .....
Lei~~ I'm sorry that this is so long after the fact---have been away from the Board from a while.
I was a Navy wife for 21 yrs--though I was not married to a submariner. I know how it was difficult when my husband was gone for long periods--I can't even imagine how much more difficult it must be to be married to a submariner. Their whereabouts always so guarded leaving families to wonder and pray for their saftey constantly. Then WHAM they are on the news after a major tragedy. I have been in a situation awaiting news of the ship during a stressful time----the Navy seems to move at a snail's pace in getting word to families. My sympathies to the entire grieving USS Minneapolis/St Paul family.
Your strength is amazing, Lei. My prayers for you and Paul as you count off the days till you are reunited once again.
Angel on your shoulder