Changes-trying to be positive

So many changes are taking place for me. Broke the news to my husband that I am leaving. I am out of sick leave but cant stand much more. My one year anniversary is coming up w/ my birthday 4 days later. The scales are at 201 and i am on the brink of onederland. I am really stressing but trying to stay positive. All prayers and support would be appreciated. Thanks to all my friends. Shannon

Hi Shannon, You do have a lot of changes going on. I will pray for you tonight that you come out on top in everything that you are going through. Good luck getting to wonderland very soon, too! You're doing great! Take Care, Robin

Shannon my thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through these changes. Keep your chin up and keep smiling (it makes people wonder what you have been up too). Courtney

Your a tough cookie keep ur chin up and ur in my prayers,call if u need to talk. Hugsss

Hey Shannon, I know that changes can be hard but once you are through the roughest part, you will be able to get on with you life. You now have a new lease and use it to your every advantage. No matter what you're going through.....you look marvelous....and don't you forget it. You've come a long ways Baby and there ain't no turning back now. I will keep you in my prayers. It's times like this when we really find out what we are made of. Lots of Love Kathy

Shannon, you mean you're leaving your husband? sorry to be so stupid but I hadn't heard you say that. I just want you to be happy and I hope this is one step towards that. Please don't stress about onederland -- you'll get there. I stalled at 201 too. It was a bummer. You know you have all my support that I can give you -- love donna

Sorry to say it Donna but it has been coming a long time. I put up w/ too much for too long. My hopes and dreams had been tossed aside for years for his and his families happiness. Cant do that anymore. Feel like I have been living a lie faking being happy and i cant mentally or emotionally do that anymore. Financially it will be difficult to handle but i will survive somehow. If i dont go i am going to end up in a psych ward somewhere. Thanks for the support Shannon

Like I said Shannon, I want you to be happy and I am here to support you. You are much too young and have a nice life ahead of you not to be happy. love donna

Hi Sweetie....If you need me, you know where I am...I will be here for you like you were here for me when I was going through the same thing. You are a strong, lovely lady and you will be fine. I know it. Just let me help if I can. I love you... Hugs, Betsy

Hey, Shannon! Hugs to ya. I remember telling my first hubby that I was leaving. While I knew it was what was right for both of us especially me, I still felt sad at times as I grieved the loss. Good luck at you proceed on with your life. I know it will be filled with ups and downs for now but in the long run...I hope it finds you happy as well as healthy. Take care, Kathy