Hello

I am brand new to all of this--I've never posted to a forum before and I just recently (relatively speaking) decided to have weight loss surgery. I attended one group session but I didn't really like it so a co-worker suggested I give this a try. I'm not a real big "joiner" but I like to learn as much as I can about things. Anyway, my surgery date is 10/23.

Geez and I sat in front of you at that meeting. Welcome! Kathy

Were you directly in front of me?

That was me!

Please realize that the reason I didn't like the support group was not because I didn't feel the people weren't nice because they were. I just am not comfortable in group situations. You seemed like a nice person; thank you for the warm welcome. Thank you, everyone, for the warm welcomes. Perhaps in time I will become more comfortable with sharing things but if not, I know I can at least come and look and learn.

No problem. I understood what you meant. Was just teasing a bit. Probably should have thrown a smiley face in there. The other monthly support group at Fair Oaks, Staples Club, is more speakers and topics and not meant to be as much of a chat, ya know? It was nice to sorta meet ya! Again welcome!

Hi Edrienna, I am sure you will feel comfortable in no time on this forum. It is easy to talk to people. And there is quite a strong group of folks in the NOVA area (me being one!) so you might feel it a little easier. There is another group that you might want to go to and it is held on Saturday (and I can't remember which one) morning at 10:30 at Panera. Maybe Roberta who is the moderator will see this and post the info. You might like that better than the one attended as it is less structured. Anyway, welcome to the group! Your surgery will be here in no time. congratulations. love donna

I don't know, I'm just not real comfortable in crowds (pretty weird for someone who taught at college, huh?) I guess what the real issue is, is that I'm not comfortable talking about myself in crowds. I guess I'll just have to see. Thank you!

Congrats on your decision to have WLS. It has been a smart decision for me. I am not as involved in my support groups at my doctor's office because of the distance. I feel that I can get everything I need, regarding support, through OH's forums. Nice to meet you !! Dana

Hi there EW.... So nice to have you come and be a part of our board. This is the nicest group of people anywhere and all the support we give one another is amazing. You will feel right at home in no time at all. I had my surgery in July and have already lost 58 lbs. It is the most awesome thing I've ever done just for me. Good luck & God bless you in your journey and I will keep you in my prayers as your surgery approaches. Lots of Love Kathy