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I have updated my profile today. THe past few days have been "hell on earth" for me. See profile for details. Hope everyone is well. Stephanie

Stephanie , You are not alone sweety . I know you feel that way but we are hear for you . I am so very sorry for all that you are going thru. While I have never lost a baby, my pain for you is great . I will pray for you tonight and ask God to take your burdens. Please know that we love you and are here . I know it is not the same as having a family to go to .. but in essence we are family . If there is ever anything I can do please call on me . Email me and I will be there for you either by phone or writing you . Please reach out to us .. or contact your pastor if it gets to overwhelming . And remember he is a loving God .. even when we feel like we are here with Hell on Earth .. As hard as this seems to bear , I have learned through my love for life and for his word that he will not give me more than I can bear .. and to take my challenges, my dispair and delight in it .. and turn it into joy .. somehow some way . You may be able once your pain subsides be able to help someone else that has gone thru this .. I have read your profile and I know you are a strong woman ... My heart aches for you .. just know I am here to talk to . Love you , Natalie

Stephanie...I am just right over the bridge. If I can help with anything please let me know. I am so sorry for your loss. I had 2 stillborns back to back. The chromosomes on the first one came back 45X..She had Turner's syndrome. The second one got wrapped up in his cord. I really spiraled down further than anyone knew with the depression and wish someone would convinced me to get help. I didn't really have anyone to talk to about it..everyone danced around it. My heart goes out to you right now..and your husband and children.... I know how much the two of you wanted this baby. Big Hugs, Dana

Hey Stephanie, I teared up reading your profile. Life just isn't very fair sometimes. I just want you to know that you and your DH will be in my thoughts and prayers. It's hard enough having your spouse deployed, but to have to go through what you have suffered-well I just can't imagine how you must be hurting. But know you are not alone-The prayers and the love and support you will get through the good people on this and other boards here at OH are real and countless. Feel free to drop me an email if you just want to scream at someone. I won't take it personally-I know it's therapeutic(sp) to vent. Besides, I've been married almost 23 years, so I'm used to it! LOL Take care and know God loves you, Bob PS:Thank you and your husband for your service to our country.

Stephanie, I know there isn't anything anyone can say that will help, I've been there... But I live in Hampton, and my kids are 11, and 9, and play great with others, so if you want to meet and let the kids play and just have some company, I am here. I am praying for you and yours. Kate

You & yours are in my thoughts & prayers Stephanie. We are here for you if you need us. Courtney

Stephanie, sorry for your loss. I have had you in my prayers and still will. I am asking God to take care of you and give you strenght. Just remember we are all here for you. If we can be of any help feel free to email us or just post on here. May God bless you and keep you in his loving hands.

Stephanie, I am so sorry to hear about your hard time. If there is anything I can do, please let me know...even if you just need to talk. My prayers are with you and your family. Christine

Stephine, I would like to say I am sorry to hear about what is going on. I sort of know what you are going through. My ex had to have a DNC due to the baby dying in utro. One of the toughest times ever but time does heal all wounds. I will be thinking about you. Dan

Stephanie I am so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage when my son was 7 months old. I was devastated. I felt guilty for a lot of things. I was able to come to peace with it eventually. I pray your next weeks will be full of peace from God and love from all your friends. Love, Jenn