UPDATE ON MY SON
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
VIVIAN-glad it wasn't something more "emergency"-BUT-had it BEEN-I'm sure it would have been handled-$$ or not. San Antonio has many indigent programs (think of the multi socio-economic classes who live there)..maybe Shawn would not qualify because he is not a "permanent" resident. Regardless, if had been an EMERGENCY, I don't think they would have sent him home.
As for when he gets home..YES..help him help him make the appts, but, of course, HE is still in charge. HE needs to register with JPS, etc. There is no reason for you and your DH to rack up huge medical bills (though I know you would happily do so, to ensure to health of your child). It is possible there will be some "lasting damage", from the drug usage", but it doesn't HAVE to happen. Many users turn out to be perfectly, physically healthy.
Mostly, PLEASE try not to worry yourself sick over things you have no control of..like I said..TRY..lol
RNY 4-22-02...
LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155
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