got bad news friday

when i called my doctor friday to see how paper work was going they told me that they was not going to send my paper work in to tn to c if i can get approved cause they called a doctor in swee****er tn that is taking blue care patients and he requires a 2 year physican diet and 5 years medical records so i was and was ready to and my doctor cause if she new this along i could have it done by now cause i started wanting to do this in 2002 right after i had my second son so now all i want to do is from the world cause i really thing nothing is ever going to happen 4 me i need all the prayers i can get right now cause all i want to do is hide from everybody and not talk to nobody please help and send prayers up 4 me maybe i can get around all this stupid stuff kristie

Kristie, Please take some good advice that someone on here gave to me! I am giving to you. Call Blue care Monday and ask for the phone # for their case mangement department. Then call that # and get your self a case manger! They will really help you! Mine is a angel! She will help you and you do have a choice in doctors! Maybe just one or two but you do have a choice. I am leaving in the morning so I will not be on the boards for about a week but when I get back please let me know if I can help. My WLS is 7/21.! Whoo Hoo!!! Cherry

ty cherry i will do that first thing i hope that i can still have this done and thank you for the advice kristie

Good Morning Kristie, My advice is this - Don't get down on yourself! Try not too! Because that is just gonna make you eat... (That's if your the kind that eats when your stressed - That's SO ME!) Anyways, just because this doctor requires this - Doesn't mean another doctor is the same way. Keep your head up and keep searching! I remember the first time I got a letter from the doctor saying pretty much this.... "Sorry but we won't be taking your insurance after January 2003...." Ugh... I got that a week before Christmas! UGH! However, my only regret was hiding from the world after this happened! My whole attitude changed, I hated myself and especially friends that tried to make me believe I was cute, even at that size. I missed out on so much during this time.... So please don't give up! Your time will come and all this waiting you did, will soon be forgotten.... Best wishes, Katie

Hey Kristi, Sorry to hear about your bad day, I think we all have had those since starting out journey. I wish you to be able to either find a Dr. who doesn't require this, or give it a try, it's a catch 22. I don't know what to say, find a different dr, BUT DON'T GIVE UP. this is just a minor set back is all. Kathy