Maintenance Phase
Thanks for everyone's support on here, I've learned a little and alot of each of you and hope to pass it on.
HW 340/SW 297/CW 170/GW 190 — Start of Program Weight 315
And all of us women know that men lose disgustingly fast. It ain't fair I tell ya!!!!
Congratulations Kenny!! We are all proud of you and for you. You have done an amazing job and are a great inspiration.
Just so you know... you just thought the losing phase was hard. Maintenance is like trying to rub your tummy and pat your head while juggling bowling balls. One week you hardly feel like eating and your weight goes up, the next you are constantly hungry and feel you are eating everything in sight and your weight goes down.
Eventually you do find a happy medium and life takes on some semblance of normal.
Susan (AKA bilsrib)
300/135/135 - Plastics February 2008 - Dr. Lois Wagstrom
P E A C E - It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.
I've upped the amount of food and calories that I'm eating, but still losing (not much, but it needs to stop).
I also work out 3 times a week, so that might be part of my issue.
Some days I feel like I've eaten too much, or felt like I did nothing but eat all day. When I go to Starbucks I get Soy milk in my latte instead of skim milk because I need the calories!
It's not been hard, just need to stay mindful.
Good luck.
Michael.
If you need some tips on the weight lifting, carb ratio, etc. let me know. I have a friend that I could get you in contact with... He has taught me a lot... though I don't follow the weight lifting lifestyle, we've had many discussions about weight loss surgery patients and he would love to work with you...
Thanks for everyone's support!
HW 340/SW 297/CW 170/GW 190 — Start of Program Weight 315
Today I ate about 1200 calories and struggled with that! If I did not have some of the chips that I did with lunch I would have been short about 200 calories. Then I went to the gym and burned about 200 more calories.
This is really hard to stop losing at this point, but I will say it is not "falling" off like it was before. On average of about 5-8 lbs per month for the last 3 months. But if I continue to lose that much for the next 3-6 months I will be down another 15-30 lbs or more! Not good at this point.
I try to add "value" calories when I can... For example I go to Starbucks and get a coffee... I get Soy instead of nonfat for an extra 50 calories. I use regular sour cream, and 2% cheese, not fat free. This can add about 20-50 calories per serving, which I need at this point. I don't go crazy because I feel guilty about it, because you are taught that fat is "bad". Moderation is the key, and eating this way for the last year, now it is nothing but second nature for me now.
I still do not eat sugar, that will make me dump, and also, besides the one coffee (sometimes two on special occasions) in a day, no "empty" calories for me. If I ever stopped working out, I may have to adjust this more, but do not plan on it. To this day I do not "graze" or eat when I'm bored.
At this point in my journey and in maintenance, I feel more normal. I feel that I can eat what I want, and NEVER feel deprived. I do not miss the ful sugar items, or SODA!!
All those new post ops, this is for maintance ONLY - do not let this be a reason to start up old habits... you need to arrive before you can maintain. I hope that makes sense!
Strange indeed!
Michael.