Feeling icky today

(deactivated member)
on 6/1/09 1:18 am - Nashville, TN
So I have been steadily losing weight (at my halfway mark) but I still feel bloated and fat most of the time. I'm guessing that is pretty normal for most people?

My clothes are loose and I can "see" that I am getting smaller, but I don't "feel" any smaller.

I know it is all psychological and will hopefully get better in time. It's just funny to me because some days I will eat my small portions of food throughout the day, feel like I have "pigged out", and then check the scale and I had actually lost a pound.
 
How can I rid myself of that bloated, icky, fat feeling? Easier said than done, right? 
Michael S.
on 6/1/09 2:58 am
If you are like anyone else... normal... you will continue to feel like a "fat" person for a while.

I still do, and I'm basicly at my goal.
I would recomend that you go and talk with a therapist about this issue.  I would not hurt for ALL WLS patients to seek help in this area.

I talk with someone twice a month and it has helped some.  I know that it will take time, but I will get there.

I have been overweight all my life, so that is all I know.  You may or may not be the same.

Michael.
Pam Davis
on 6/1/09 5:32 am - Franklin, TN
The multiple psychologist led groups discuss this topic frequently. We have groups every Tuesday and Thursday at noon. Also, our men's group meets this Saturday at 10. I think this topic is pretty pertinent for all groups.
Pam Davis, Certified Bariatric Nurse, Bariatric Program Director
Centennial Center for the Treatment of Obesity
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(deactivated member)
on 6/1/09 3:08 am, edited 6/1/09 3:09 am - Nashville, TN
Yeah.. I figured I was "preaching to the choir" on this one. I'm still a very happy go lucky/ easy going guy, so it's not impacting my life in a bad way.

In fact, I probably wouldn't even think about it very often, except for the fact that people at work constantly walk by my desk and say- "how much weight have you lost?", "you are wasting away", or "looking skinny!".

When they say this, I pause and think to myself "I sure don't feel skinny (I feel as heavy as I was before the surgery)."

This too, shall pass. :-)

 
melsreturn
on 6/1/09 3:14 am - Madison, TN
My surgery was almost 3 yrs ago.  I wear a size 4.  I STILL have days where I feel fat.  Look fat.  Think fat.  You just keep walking forward and hope for a time when you don't feel that way... 



 

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