Phil's home

I finally got him home yesterday. We are trying to get back in the swing of things. He is doing pretty good, we have a nurse coming out everyday to change the wound. We are having to go to the IV doctor every other day, not to count all of the other doctors appts we have. This will probably be going on for about 6 weeks. I am doing so so, right now I can only keep liquids down, can't remember the last time I actually chewed something. I am wore out to say the least, my nerves are shot. But at least he is home, now if I can get him to do what he is suppose to. He can't put weight on this foot for about 6 weeks and with him being a below the knee amputee on the other, he is having a rough time of it. It is really hard on me getting him out and into the van. We do have a ramp but it is still rough. But I will do what I have to do to get him better. Cheryl is still on the back burner for now. Hopefully that will change real soon. I just want to thank EVERYONE for all the post, pm, phone calls, etc. They have meant so much to us. I don't know what I would have done with out ya'll. I wanted to say an extra special thanks to Barb for posting updates for me.  We did get some other bad news during all of this. We found out that our future DIL is a carrier of Cystic Firbros (sp). Ya'll know that she is expecting in September. They are going to test my son to see if he is a carrier, if so then it is possible that there could be serious complications as far as the health of the baby. If he is not then they are pretty sure the baby will be fine. So please continue to pray for our family during all of this.  Thanks, Cheryl

Cheryl, I am glad Phil is finally at home. Most of the time, people are able to recover much better when they are in the comfort of their own home. He obviously has a great support system around him and I know he will be able to pull through. Just don't let him be too stubborn and make him stay put.  Please try to take care of yourself. The last thing he needs right now is you getting to sick or dehydrated. I know it must be hard for you to take care of yourself when you are doing so much but try too.  I am sorry to hear about the news with your daughter. From my understanding, as long as your son is negative, everything should be fine. Even if for some reason he is positive, there is still a great chance the baby will be just fine. Stay positive and please keep us updated. HUGS!!

I am so glad that he is home now for both of you!!!  Call me in regards to the IV doctor, I have a few questions for you, that may help with this!! Love Ya Both, Shelia

I am so glad you are home, now just get him  to behalf....even if he don't want to...... Tell him it's the rules..... and you take care of yourself too. I know that everything will be fine with the baby sending positive thoughts and prayers for them..... Hugs and Luv Barb

It's good to hear that your hubby is home. I pray that he heals quickly and that you're able to take care of yourself too. I'll also pray for your grandbaby. ((hugs))

Cheryl, Prayer going out for you and your family...... hugs and postive thoughts your way. Annrenee

Cheryl - So glad to hear that Phil is back home and on the mend.  Now, a piece of valuable advice for yourself.  Now that Phil is home, it is imperative that you take care of yourself now.  Even if you aren't eating, make sure you are at least getting in your fluids and getting in plenty of protein drinks.  Remember, he can't do what he needs to do without you and you can't do what he needs you to do if you get sidelined with an illness of your own.  So, your orders are to get a good night's rest and get back to geting your nutrition levels back up. Still praying for both of you and keep in mind if you need anything, I'm sure I'm right around the corner from you being here in Antioch, so don't hesitate to PM me and let me know what you need. Take care my friend and continue to keep us posted.  Prayers and hugs to both of you.

Big warm hug, Cheryl!!!

I'll give a hearty "Amen!" in response to Wendy!  It is time for sweet Cheryl to get a little rest if possible!  Kind of like when our babies were born...sleep when they sleep..even if it is in the middle of the day.  Make sure to get some food in you, precious!  You mustn't get dehydrated or starve yourself...it just isn't a good thing.

We all love you and are praying for your family!

Kisses!

Freddie

Glad Phil is home. I do pray he recovers and you are able to get back to normal soon. Prayers are going up for ya both  hon. Also parying for your DIL.