What a week!!!!
Susan ~
First of all, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!
Second, my guess would be about 36.
But just want to encourage you ~ you are taking care of YOU. And you have done a darn good job! You are to be applauded!
Jealousy is vicious and has a very sharp tongue! It doesn't matter if you're in elem/jr high or an adult... the way people TRY to make themselves feel better, is to put others down. It's not right and it hurts - a lot.
But remember, you didn't decide to have surgery and to get healthy and to take care of yourself because your co-workers and their opinions mean so much to you. You did this, first, for yourself. Then for your family - to be there, HAPPY and LIVING - really LIVING, and really HAPPY!
It may be time to move on from your job, just another way of taking control of your life. If not, you're gonna have to get really focused on what - and who- matters. I don't think there's much difference between being 'fat and miserable' and being 'thin and miserable'.
I can tell by your picture and how you just glow, that THAT is the real you. Don't let your cir****tances dictate who you become. And any time you need a pick-me-up, just log on --- and we'll be here!
~ Tara



Tara wins!!!!!! The count was 34 nasty to 6 positive!!!!!! The 6 were from co-workers only!!! No management! Most of the nasty were from the 4 managers with a few from coworkers I barely know!!! Get this......one of the managers...that I worked closely with has not spoken to me or acknowledged my presence back to work!!!!!! She has completely ignored me......I don't like her at all anyway so it is kinda nice.
I want to scream...I had freaking Uterine Cancer...I am now Cancer free !!! I am happy...I feel 5000% better...life is good!!!!!!
Thanks for all of the sweet compliments and support...y'all are the best!!!!
Luvmissy........susan