Depressed and Need a Female to talk too.
Hello all,
I had surgery a little more than a year ago and have lost over 170lbs. .But I have some issues that I need to talk with a female about. So if any one is interested in emailing me...that would be great. My email is [email protected]
Instead of an email I sent you a private message. At the very top of your screen next to your user name you will see that you have a new message. You can click on it or you can click on "MY OH" just under your search bar then click on "messages". Welcome to this site and to the TN forum. This is a great place to come for support.
Melissa
Merry Christmas to all my OH friends!!
I was talking to Melissa. I have no idea who craftsman is or whether they are male or female.
Personally, I am always suspicious of someone with a newly created account wanting people to communicate with them through private email accounts instead of using the PM feature on the forum. I am also suspicious of people whose only communication on a forum is to ask for such private communication and specifying that communication be from females without giving any information as to their gender.
This person has not posted anything to any other message on this board.
Call me paranoid, but I've been spammed with garbage in the past and it's a ***** to get rid of once it starts.
Craftsman - If you're legit I will apologize but I will have to get to know you first.
Susan (AKA bilsrib)
300/135/135 - Plastics February 2008 - Dr. Lois Wagstrom
P E A C E - It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.
Sorry about that...I know/knew that it sound weird. The reason I have a new account/and obscure name can be found as part of my problem...I have already had 6 or so people PM/email me so thank you all for helping. I asked for a female because this question relates to helping me understand my wife (so yes I am a man). Plus my email is a separate private account too... :)

I do apologize then for assuming you were up to no good.
I do hope you have gotten some helpful answers and information. I pray too that you and your wife can work through whatever is going on. I know that the changes we experience following surgery affect our spouse/significant other just as much as they do us, just in different ways.
It sounds like you are doing great with your weight loss. Congratulations! I hope you will continue to visit the TN board and that someday we can all meet you and your wife.
Susan (AKA bilsrib)
300/135/135 - Plastics February 2008 - Dr. Lois Wagstrom
P E A C E - It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.
Yea Susan I was a little iffy too that is why I asked him to pm me instead of emailing. He is legit and is going through some tough times with his wife since surgery. She is having some female problems and he was wanting to know what to do to help her but didn't feel comfortable posting on the boards.
Thanks so much for the compliment! I am down 46 pounds since surgery. Thanks for all your support.
Melissa
Merry Christmas to all my OH friends!!