Hello. I'm back....

I've been at my mom's house... no internet.  But I am among the living and doing well.  The doctor took almost 3 1/2 lbs of skin off... and its so flat there that I cannot believe it.  I feel numb on my legs, and it hurts mostly only when I stand up from a chair, or try to sit down in a chair.  However, its getting easier each time.  I started out sleeping in the bed, but halfway through the night I had to resort to the recliner.  I can't yell that loud, so my mom kept her cell phone by her bed, and I kept mine and I called her whenever I needed her help.  She had to pull me out of the bed.   Tim of course has come to see me everyday, and was there during my surgery.  He took me and mom to the hospital.  He was a real trooper... didnt even gross out when I showed him the end result.  Mike is excited to have his plastic surgery now as there is such a notable difference in my before/after results.... Thanks for all your prayers and thoughts.  I needed them!  The only thing I dont like, is not being able to stand up straight.  I am kind of hunched over right now like a 70 yr old woman!  But that will get better.

oooh, you skinny thang!! I can't wait to see you. That dress you got at GW is going to fit like it was made for you now! I want to have my tummy done so badly. But I want a grandbaby more so I'll wait a while longer. I could just see your smile as you typed about Tim. I like him more all the time. I'm so happy for you!

Glad you are home chickie!  Cant wait to see you and your results. Hugz!

Glad to see you're doing well!!

Glad you are home.  I slept in the recliner one night and after that on the couch.  Once the swelling went down I was still solid flat, but it has loosened up some where I am unable to work out, so I have just a little flab right now, but can still zip a size four skirt.  I get my thighs done at the VA on Oct. 2, but all I can think about right now is getting my things from storage and getting settled first, and the hottie next door.  That's an ever waking moment.   I'm thrilled all went well for you.  Once the swelling starts going down, so will the pain. Are you having to wear a binder?  I did, but that made it harder for me to get around and more trying to breath.  I still put it on every so often.  Helps with the back pain from the leukemia sometimes. Can't wait to see you in a couple of weeks.  I have something very special for you.  Love

You're my hero......

Hi Melinda: We still haven't met in person but your are a real inspiration to me.  I've been following your story for a while.  Congratulations on your surgery.  I can hardly wait to meet you (maybe at the September lunch bunch?) Have a great day! Freddie

Hey Melinda! I am so glad everything went well. Now, you take it easy and recover. Tell Mom and Tim we all said thanks for taking care of our girl. Hope you are up and running in no time and showing off that new dress of yours. Keep us updated!