Ladies ONLY...Mature Content...You've Been Warned!

Okay, this is a ladies only post and I warn you now, it involves the big S-E-X!! I have now lost nearly 70 pounds. Since surgery, my hubby and I have only been intimate once or twice because, quite frankly, I have no interest in it lately. I know this is opposite from a lot of experiences, but I have become much more interested in being outside or in trying on everything in my closet once a week, (I know, I know, so sue me!) and just not in THAT. Well, with staying in a little studio for vacation, and Savannah being in the same room, nothing went on during that week and he felt especially neglected. (Can't say as I blame him, poor guy, it was his vacation!) Today he was off, Savannah was at school, so I gave in...heck, I even initiated it! Of course he was perfectly happy but I was amazingly surprised at what joy the encounter brought myself, and not for the reasons you may think...Afterwards, just lying and talking, I felt two foreign objects protruding from my chest and I exclaimed, sorry for the crassness, "what the hell is this?" At this point, Eddie starts laughing hysterically as he tells me I have just discovered my newly uncovered ribs! So I am lying there rubbing my ribs and grinning like an idiot. He gets up, asks me if I'm getting up, and I flat out tell him I'm having too much fun feeling my ribs. He tells me I have no idea how funny I look...but I don't really give a hoot...I'm on a wow moment high! Since this is the kind of thing you'd have to experience, or be looking forward to experiencing to understand, I just had to share with my wls buddies! Isn't it fun?

Gives a whole new meaning to "The Joy of Sex"!

All I can say is that Susan put it perfectly!!!

Kym, What a WOW moment. Hey you may get more interested in SEX if you can discover new and great things about your body each time. I do know about just not being interested anymore, most folks say they have a better sex drive, but I have no sex drive (tmi) lol. Maybe this will get me interested in finding new things out about my self. Thanks for sharing. Darlene

Sex??? What's that??? LOL It will get better hon just give it time. My hormones sometimes get in an uproar but alass no one to share with : ( Anyways take it a day at a time . Oh and congrats on finding your ribs! ; )

I know exactly how you feel.... your whole anatomy changes!! It is truly amazing... who'd thought self-discovery could be so much fun haha! As for the sex drive... everyone says that you'll have no interest in it for months and then one day it'll just take off ... it hasn't quite exactly happened to me yet... but my husband's is in overdrive since I've lost a substantial amount of weight... can't keep his hands off me. But, its fun and I like to make him happy. I'm pretty surprised we haven't had any "oops" yet lol

Sex? What's that? LOL! Another WOW moment!