I know exactly how you feel.  I July of 05' my mom had the RNY.  I was excited for her because I knew this would be a great chance for her to lose her weight and get healthy for her family.  At the same time though I felt like the one thing we had in common was now gone.  She lost the weight so rapidly we no longer when shopping together and we didn't go out to eat anymore.  I became very depressed and I struggled alot with the decision on whether or not I should have the surgery and in the end I had to make sure that it had nothing to do with my mother.  You have to take the time to find who you are and make sure that you are ready for the surgery.  It is a very emotional journey and if you are not ready for it you may hurt yourself more in the long run.  I also took alot of time to pray about my decision.  I had the surgery about 6 months later and I am grateful for it everyday, however, there are going to be many new things that you will experience and it will be very difficult.  If you decide to have the surgery I wish you lots of luck and success.

I workout daily. So I have a protein shake before and after. It's become a habit :) I love good habits!  I eat egg whites all the time too. Eggs are a good source of protein :) 

One of my best friends daughter is 285lb and age 16 will insurance plans cover WLS for teens.

Hey Lauren!
I am 18 and I had my surgery on November 20th. Well, I am in my freshmen year of college. I dont think I have met my protein goal yet. I think thats the one thing I have the hardest time with. Right now while I have been out of school for Christmas its been a little easier but I start back school on Wed. So I am going to try to use the flavorless protein powder in some of my drinks. Take snacks like peanut butter. I will most likely pack my lunch because college food is no better then highschool. Well, they have some things that are good, but nothing I can eat now. I would just carry around some protein powder, so that way you can mix it in about anything. I would make sure to take snacks with you whenever you go somewhere. I hope I helped some. I will be using these tips when I go back to school!

I hope you are doing well with your surgery. Its good to met someone my age! Keep in touch!

 

My 13 yr old daughter is about 5'10 and weighs around 270. She is a very big girl height and weight wise, but she has been losing weight on her own.I am trying very hard to help any way I can, but it takes time.I am proud of her and she is a great kid.We are working together to make our home more healthy.I am proud of the fact that she has cut her portions down all on her own.Keep trying out there.