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Topic: RE: Support needed for my teen
I know it must be hard for your daughter. I understand because I am 5'4 , 288pounds, with a bmi of 49.4. I'm 17 years old. my advice for you and your daughter is to keep trying and don't worry about what other people think. If your daughter has been overweight her whole life as I am, then she has to lost her youth. I don't do normal things like go out and play basketball,and go swimming. I am ashamed at the way I look and the fact that i don't have the energy to do anything. Everyone has the right to be happy, but no overweight person is . They may act like it but they're not. I'm trying to get the surgery because I am Morbidly Obese and like your Daughter we are both headed in the wrong direction. You are a great mother to stick by you daughter, its hard to find people like you now a days. Just keep on what your doing dont give up hope. Your her shoulder to lean on. Good job Mom:clap:
Topic: RE: Support needed for my teen
Angela, I want to tell you first off, that you are a great mother, for being so supportive. I also am 16, but weight a lot more than your teen, and my parents don't want anything to do with my decision.
For my insurance, which is OHIP, because I am Canadian, you have to have a certian BMI [body mass index]. It's around 50, so I've been stuffing my face with food so that I can get approved. Not a good idea. However, every insurace is different. Also, when applying for your insurance, you may need to provide them with a hospital - The Clevland Clinic does youth surgery.
I hate how no one truly understands what's it like to be an obese teen these days. We can't go clothes shopping with friends. We in genreal don't like to hang out in public, because people point, laugh and stare like you have something written on your forehead. No one wants to be friends with the "fat person" because status is everything. Haniging out with a fat person, may ruin ones reputation. Although in Canada, I don't think it's too much of a problem, but when I see videos of High Schools in America, I just feel blessed that I don't have to deal with that.
I would so apply for insurance before it get's too late. She's at the perfect age where her skin is going to be very eleasticy, and will a lot of energy to work out and what not.
Whatever you decide to do, good luck, and if you need any opinions from a teens perspective, just let me know!
Good luck.
Topic: RE: Teens with lap band?
I am 18 years old and getting my first meeting with the surgeon today! I went to my first lecture a month ago. Im extremely nervous about today. I feel a lot better knowing that im not the only teenager in the world thinking about this...
Topic: Hello again
Hey guys! I began the process of my surgery last summer but then chickened out, and thought I could do it myself. Well as you can see here I am again. I am still a little nervous about everything. I think the main thing I am concerned about is getting approved. I am 5'5 and weigh 270 and I have bc/bs of alabama. If anyone has any tips or advice, It would really help!!!
Topic: teenage plastic surgery
Hi!
I'm a high school student and I'm doing a research paper on teens *****ceive plastic surgery.
It would be helpful if any of you could share your experiences with me and answer the following questions or email them to me at [email protected]
Thank you for replying.
here are the questions:
1. When did you get surgery?
2. What initially caused you to consider surgery as an option?
3. Do you know anybody who had surgery before? If so, did they have good results? Did they encourage you to do so as well or at least present the advantages of surgery? Did they help to consolidate your decision?
4. Were you hesitant about your decision at first? What helped you to go through with your decision?
5. How did family members and friends react when you told them that you were considering surgery? Were they supportive or did they try dissuade you from doing it?
6. How do you feel about the change? Any difficulties?
7. Do you think it affected the way others behave around you? How did people react after your surgery?
8. Would you recommend surgery to others? If so why or why not?
9. With the knowledge you have about surgery now, would you still have received the operation?
10. How do you feel about the media's portrayal of cosmetic surgery? Do you think they are accurate and that they present a balanced view point?
11. Any other comments?
Topic: Support needed for my teen
Hi i had wls on 4-16-2004 i lost from 278 to 135. Problem i now feel guilty my teen is also overweight 220 she is 16 we are working on getting this for her but dr. ins co and family act like teens dont deserve this chance at a new better life its so much harder for her than it was for me she has had to go through way more. I pray everyday it works but have a hard time understanding as a wls patient myself why everyone is so against it for teens she is vey mature which i belive is the most important thing any response or support is hlpful thanks
Topic: RE: *I'm BACK!!*
Hey Beautiful!! Whats up chika! I just read your message and profile and I would encourage you to really consider the surgery. The reason I am writing you is because you remind me so much of myself when I was your age. I wish I could of gotten the surgery a while ago. I am 23 now and getting it but i got up to 500 lbs in the process. But just wanted to let you know that you are GORGEOUS and hope you get the surgery! Feel free to message me anytime!
Raya
Topic: RE: Lapbanding teen seeking support!
Hey Nichole! Soo.. I was reading your little page thing about you, and seriously.. our stories are vrtually the same! Except, I didn't end up being homeschooled, I transferred out of my public high school to a small boarding school a few hrs away from where my family lived. It's a crazy, ironic world!
Have a fab weekend!
Topic: RE: Lapbanding teen seeking support!
PS. Come on over to the lap band forum. We're very supportive folk. Go to Forums then you'll see a list of surgery types, and click on lap band. Good Luck!!
Topic: RE: Lapbanding teen seeking support!
I'm in the process of getting surgery. There is a site called www.lapbandtalk.com who are all people who've had the AGB (Lap Band) or who are in the process of getting it. Since I'm 17 I may have to wait 3 months until my consult. So good luck girl!!