FUSTRATED !!!!!!

HI ALL, SORRY BUT I NEED TO VENT. WELL I JUST GOT HOME FROM SEEING MY BEHAVIORIST, LAST MONTH WHEN I SAW MY BMC (BARIATRIC MEDICAL CONSULTANT) HE TOLD ME THAT THE NEXT TIME I SEE HIM HELL PRESENT ME FOR SURGERY. AND NORMALLY 2-3 WEEKS AFTER THE PRESENTATION I WOULD GET A SURGERY DATE. WELL MY BEHAVIORIST TOLD ME THAT SHE WONT CLEAR ME UNTIL I SEE HER TWO MORE TIME. AND KEEP IN MIND ITS ONLY ONCE A MONTH. SO MY BMC TELLS ME I SHOULD HAVE SURGERY IN AUGUST. NOW ACCORDING TO MY BEHAVIORIST IM NOT GOIN TO HAVE IT UNTIL I GET CLEARANCE FROM HER WHICH IS LIKE 2-3 MONTHS LONGER. I HOPE THIS IS ALL MAKING SENSE TO YOU ALL. IM JUST SOOO MAD !!! MY BMC TELLS ME IM HAVING SURGERY AUG BUT COME TO FIND OUT I WONT UNTIL OCT OR NOV. WHATS GOIN ON HERE ??? IVE ALREADY SET MY LIFE TO HAVE SURGERY IN AUGUST, I BOUGHT ALL OF THE SUPPLEMEMTS WHICH IS COSTLY AND MAY EVEN EXPIRE ???? SECONDLY IVE ALREADY TOLD MY JOB AND THEY SIGNED THE DOCUMENTS ALREADY NEEDED TO TAKE SICK LEAVE NOW I HAVE TO REDO IT ???? GOSH !!! RIGHT NOW MY LIFE IS ON HOLD UNTIL I GET SURGERY AND NOW I FIND OUT ITS GOIN TO TAKE ANOTHER 2-3 MOS LONGER. IVE STARTED MY JOURNEY JUNE 21 2004 SO IVE BEEN WAITING AND PUTTING MY LIFE ON HOLD FOR SOOO LONG ALREADY. I HATE MY JOB AND STRESS DOIN MY JOB EVERYDAY BUT CANT LEAVE CUZ I NEED THE MEDICAL. SOOO IM LIKE SOOO MAD AND FUSTRATED LIKE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE. ??????????????????????? WELL I CAN GO ON AND ON AND ON IF I WANT. BUT I JUST WANNA THANK YOU ALL FOR LISTENING TO ME I JUST NEEDED TO GET ALL OF THAT OUT.

What I would do is talk to BMC and behavorist. Explain to them both the cir****tance. If also need to find out why the behavorist doesn't want to approve you yet. You need to state the importance of having the surgery in Aug. But remember to maintain a good composure, you don't want to make anyone mad who may have a say on when you have your surgery. Good Luck. Just try to straighten everything out Laura

thanx for the kind words, talked the the bmc and he couldnt do anything he had no power over her. and i dont wanna bother talking to her already because i just think of it this way ive been waiting well over a year for this surgery and what is another 2-3 more months i guess ??? thank you rob