IM NEW!!

Im new here (kind of) and Im looking for some friends! Im in the process of getting WLS and I could really use some support. Ive been browsing profiles and you all inspire me so much. I hope to find some really great friends to share my journey with and be a supportive friend during theirs!

I just read all the stuff you want to do after surgery, I can honestly say more then half of that Is exactly what I want to do. I'm am so sick of people telling me I carry myself well. Um I'm FAT everyone knows it so get the hell out of my face. I know that they are just tryin to be nice but I dont like to hear that **** I tried to send you an email but IDK if you got it so I wrote this one. But Email me anytime if you want to talk Good luck with everything. Bye Bye

Hey hun- thanks for the response! I know exactly what you mean. Everyone tells me "your not fat" or "you dont look that big" or "you dress yourself so well nobody notices".... HAHAHAHA I see it in their faces IM FAT, everyone else knows it too. I can see that even in class people think twice about sitting next to me. If there are two seats left and one is next to me they go right to the other one. That hurts- Im not a bad person, I just have a problem. I just dont know how its going to be when I actually do lose the weight and then everyone wants to be my friend and be around me, Im afraid Ill be angry like WHERE WERE YOU A FEW MONTHS AGO? I dont want to be around people who think they are too good for me now. Same as far as a boyfriend goes. But pshhh whatever. Ill deal. There are tons of great people out there. WOW sorry got a bit off track haha. But anways GOOD LUCK TO YOU! I just read your page- what are you going to do now as far as surgery and insurance and stuff? Any plan B? Ive waited for so long, I know how you feel. But hopefully you'll be on the losing side and we can both cheer up haha. XOXO

Hey I just had surgery on September 14th. If you have any questions let me know! I'd be more than happy to help. I know the process of getting the WLS can be tough I went through it for over a year. Anyways, take care hope to hear from you soon

Hey , how's things going ? well i read some of your profile and you seem like a nice/ cool person to be friends with, most of your whole list i want to be able to do after WLS. I tried making friends here before but only met like one other person, seems like this forum is kinda dead other than a few posts here and there ... anyway i'm 20 yrs old, from california and i recently applied for insurance (which was by saying the least was hard) because of the high bmi ... anyway you can write back here if you want or email me -Nichole