i have a tattoo in mind but im a terrible artist, my tattoo artist is my brother in law and lives far away so id rather give him a finished piece to work with so his entire time spent here isnt doing the artwork.
http://ll.tattoojohnny.com/prod/images/icons/sagittarius_tat too.jpg
heres the piece i love but i dont dig on flowers so i was hoping to replace the flowers with stars or hearts... its a piece to represent my son. any help??

you seen mine rite?!?!?
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Hi, Momma...Sorry it took me a bit to see this post.  You were not rambling.  I hear you about having kids and loving him.  But, BOTTOM LINE?  It's YOUR body.  If he keeps dropping his "not-so-subtle hints", I'd drop some MAJOR reminders that you mentioned your desire to get more ink a looong time ago.  I know I'm not alone when I say tattoos hold a special (it feels 'spiritual' for me) meaning and shouldn't be considered as trivial or trendy.  They tell a story of who you are and what you've been through.  NO ONE has the right to deny you of celebrating/marking your story.  NO ONE.  Don't back down.  You told him about wanting more when you first met and he should honor that.  It's true that good relationships often hinge on the ability to compromise on certain issues and work together -- but this is an issue you should never have to compromise on.  You are not wrong for not doing what he wants.  Bottom line -- it's YOUR body.  I'm pre-op, too, and I wish you nothing but the best, hon'....but I sincerely hope he doesn't generally have issues with trying to control things too much to his liking.  What is he going to do when you start dropping major amounts of weight and begin to transform before his eyes? 

Okay I have only 5 tatts and have been waiting til I lose weight (I'm pre op still) to get more ink. Dont wanna have things shift ya know :o) Well, when I met my now fiance I told him I was really into tatts. That I look forward to more. At the time, he didnt have any himself. After a year and a half we got matching "bookends". We got tux- those who dont know its the logo type thing for linux- as windows is a windows. He is a computer geek :oD My way of getting his name tatted on me without the precurser that follows getting names. Well since surgery will be near I have been looking around for a great artist to help custom make my sleeve tatt and chest piece. He has been droping some not-so-subtle hints that he doesnt want me to get all the work I want done. What do I do? We have 2 kids together and I love him. I dont think I need to sacrafice what I have been longing for, for sooo long! I feel like when I told him in the begining I wanted more- that should of been the time to speak up. I dunno. Am I wrong for not doing what he wants?
Sorry for rambling
nee'
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