HELP!!! ? for all you spouses

for all the spouses... after he or she had surgery did you find that they changed drastically. how many of you have had a spouse cheat after the surgery. what did you do?? please reply thanks

If they cheated then it has nothing to do with the WLS. Perhaps that may have in fact been why they had the surgery. As far as what to do... Forget about them having had the surgery and treat it just as if they cheated. What does your heart tell you to do?

Make sure he has no reason to go anywhere else to find what he's looking for.Make sure he can get it all at home.His sexual appetite is real high so help him out he won't go looking then.Just a few of my thoughts.Taco 459/278/220