marriage issues help!
I married my boyfriend (a wonderful man) about a year ago. I had gotten surgery 3 months before the marriage. We had been together 5 years before marrying and been through a hell of a lot. But I feel like I am losing it with this weightloss. I have lost 80lbs and just feel so good about myself and even sexy (what is that LOL). My husband works every Friday night so I go out with my girlfriends clubbing and socializing. I love the attention that I am recieving now from men. I talk with them maybe flirt a little but never lie and say Im not married. I am able to wear sexy clothes and sure have found my sexuality. I love my Friday nights yet feel so bad...a wife shouldnt be going out every Fri. My husband is fine with it..or so he says. I really wish we could have gotten the surgery together. I feel so torn....does anyone understand?
Kitty KayRaise awareness - Multiple Sclerosis
RNY 7-30-08
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There is nothing worng with discovering you sexuality. If your husband says he is fine with what is going on then leave it at that. Don't feel guilty about having a good time with friends and enjoying yourself. Perhaps you and your husband could have a "date night" it just may spice things up for the both of you.
I honestly do understand. The attention is great almost addictive. Contgratulations on the weight loss.
Take each day as it comes and keep the lines of communication open and things will work out the right way.
