I don't know what to do

I am a great secret buddy to someone very special. I love that part. I have tried to be patient with whoever is my secret buddy. I found out a couple weeks ago why i hadn't heard from her was because she had a medical issue. So she emailed me and said she was sorry and was sending out March and Aprils gifts. Ok It is 2 weeks later. You know it isn't really rhe gift or lack there of that is the problem. It is the dissapointment of hoping for an email or a card or a package and it never coming. I have gotten one gift and maybe 10 or so emails in all of this time. I am really sad. I need to forget about this and move on. Just be a great secret buddy. Like the one that I wanted. I don't know why the person that was my secret buddy changed her email address too. I hope she is ok. Lisa

Hi Lisa I hear what you are saying....The person I have as my buddy is so sweet, I have enjoyed sending her treats...I always hear from her when she receives her gifts... My secret pal has done the same with me...I got gifts in Feb. She has sent 1 ecard and posted a note here on this board about not being able to send gifts. I'm not about the gifts, its just the let down of not experiencing what the fun ad joy I know I give my pal.. I wish people would be more commited to this. Sending you a hug~~~~ Priscilla

At least you heard from your secret buddy - I am concerned there is something wrong with mine. I am not about the gifts either - I was more hoping for a friendship, someone to encourage me, someone to shoot me a note now and then. I enjoy being there for my secret buddy - I absolutely love being there for her and she is always emailing me back. I guess the best thing we can do is just be the best we can be to ours knowing that we are brightening their days and months. I have thought about quitting, the "someone having me as a secret buddy part" and fully enjoying my giving my secret buddy attention. That way I don't have any disappointments and I just enjoy being there for someone. Best of luck to you and to all those who have missing secret buddies A

HI I know there are others out there in the same boat. Because there has been alot of posting about it. It does feel good to make someone elses day and I will continue to do so. Take care Priscilla