I need advice...
My seceret buddy (the person I send gifts to) has not responded to me in any way for over a month. I sent the gift for March and have sent ecards and emails weekly. I am so worried that something has happened to her. It also makes me feel like my thoughts and feelings that go into buying my SP a gift go unappreciated. Has anyone had this problem before? Can someone give me advice?
Thanks!
Amy~
Iris Shimmer
on 3/29/06 9:09 pm
on 3/29/06 9:09 pm
I am right there with ya!! My sp that I send too has chosen not too respond to anything I have sent her. I know she is fine, not sick or anything. My package this month will not be a package at all..I will send only a card. Then maybe she will realize that I put a lot of effort into choosing a gift for her. If not, cards will be all I send.
Now some of you may think I am wrong, so be it. This is how I am choosing to deal with it. I feel if an effort to say Thank You cannot be made on her part I no longer want to make the effort of choosing, packaging and sending a gift that is not appreciated Period.
My buddy has ben great to me..and I have tried to be a good buddy.
Renee