I apologize....I am Truly Sorry to ALL of YOU!

This is regarding a Post that I made Yesterday.... http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/secret_pals/postdetail/1737.html?vc=0 I Certainly did Not Mean to Offend anyone... I was actually trying to Help. I understand that MANYThings come up.... Without Warning! Many of us are still Pre-Op and Have Health Problems, Some of Us are NEW Post-Op and it takes time to regain your Strength.... And Some are Months and Maybe EVEN Years Out, and Enjoying their NEW Life!!! The PAL's that I was Basically directing My Post to.... Were those who are actually on their Second Month of Either NOT Sending....Or NOT Saying Thank You! Not those who were just a few days late... On either of the Above. I guess the Post came across Offensively. IF anyone took it that way. I am Sorry. I did Not mean for it to Be a problem... As much as a Good intention.... An Eye Opener.... To those not Sticking to their commitment. Again, If I offended You, I am Truly Sorry. Sincerely, IMA I-M-A-Secret!

Ima, I just wanted to let you know that I was not offened at all. I just do not want to see anyone upset or hurt and if I could send a gift to everyone who has not received one I would. Someone posted yesterday that they did not get anything not even a email and thought that THEY did something wrong. Please not not blame yourself. Alot of us have made the effort to be a good secret pal, I am sure alot of us have went above and beyond to make someones day, and I know that it can be frustrating when someone might feel like they got the short end of the stick if they have a SP that might not keep in touch, or send e-cards, or even a thank you. I had to learn the hard way that in life people are not always going to do things the way you would do them. Again, Mz.Ima, I understand your point of the post as well, I know that you were just tryin to help. Blessings ~Tonya P.S. Please keep in touch!!

Hi Ima, I fully understand, appreciate your post and by all means, not offended. I am one of the hand full of people that have not received their monthly gifts or little to no communication from their secret pals. Hopefully our secret pals will see this psting and make an attept to contact us. Thanks for posting! Pam