I need to VENT:

I don't mean to sound mean...But, why won't some people let you know when they recieve the packages??.....It don't take but a few minutes to send an e-mail or post on the secret pal forum and say.."Hey..I got my gift...Thanks"...... I make sure I send my secret pal her gifts before the last date to mail..and I wait and wait...and end up emailing her and asking if she got it...... I make sure I email my pal and post a thank you to her here..the day I get my things... I don't think it's asking to much to be a little thoughtful and let us know.....Do you all??....... Well, I have vented now.....I will say "Goodnight all"....... Brenda

Yeah that would bother me too. Luckily my buddy usually posts on here when she gets the stuff I send her. I sent a package on Thursday and she should have gotten it Monday or Yesterday. But I haven't heard from her yet. I hope she gets it soon. ((HUG))

I know what you mean, I had confirmation on the pacage I shipped and it arrived to my SB last Wednesday and I still have not heard if it was appreciated or is it was hated... Makes me not want to try very hard from now on. (((HUGS))) Dori

I have a somewhat similar problem, and need advice. I asked my SB if she had received my March package, because it was something she should have LOVED and I hadn't heard anything. She said she had not. I checked usps.com and it showed it was delivered March 1. I asked if she found it ... three times, and no answer. I feel awkward ... should I keep asking? Do I count it as delivered? Do I still owe a March gift if she didn't get it? I have to say, the woman who has me is a mind-reader. Yesterday I came into my office after having my car towed away to the shop, due to failure to start, and I find a card from her in my mailbox. What perfect timing!

In your case, are you sure she got it? I sent a package out on the 11th and the lovely post office too****il the 20th to deliver it! I did have tracking info on it, but heck I was getting nervous too! I still have not received mine, but I am trying to be more patient this month than I was last month. It may be a postal error. Keep your chin up, there are a few people *****ally appreciate this exchange. It would be nice to be acknowledged, I agree!

I am in the same boat!! I sent a beautiful package in February, no response. No email. No nothing. I sent a Feb. Paackage..same thing. I am not sending an April package sine the buddy I have has chosen not to be responsive. I will send just a card instead. So guys, I feel your pain. So folks, if you didn't want to play..drop out !! I understand people get busy, get sick, have jobs and lives. But a minute to say thank yu isn't too much to ask!! Renee