Help with OH and private pages

The woman I am a Pal to has a private page, how do I reveal myself to her and ask to be added as a friend? When I search her user name, she comes up and when I click it, it takes me to the OH page saying it's a private page. I have a private page and my last pal messaged me and asked to be added as a friend. How do I do this?

If you can find a post made by her, underneath her post will be the option to send her a message :)

I can't find any postings made by any of my past or current pal and know of no way to do so.

Could you post it here?  Maybe she reads the board?

No, unfortunately she never hardly gets on her computer or checks her email. I don't hear from her much, but thanks for the idea.