i need a friend please mom of 2 kids and a nasty mate

hello i am a mom of 2 wonderful children that are being great with my choice to go and get wls on the other hand i am dealing with a mna that needs to be put away and locked and loose the key he is nasty and no good for me but i cant leave cause he threants to take my daughter away from me and i can take it now more please help me a friend is all i am asking for or somehow to get out of this mess with my kids will help

Sorry to hear of your situation.  Feel free to post and share here any time!   {{{HUGS}}}

im always hear if u need someone to talk to...
val

thanks all for the kind works and being here for me it surely means alot to know that people actually care
maryann

Maryann -

I am saddened to learn of the situation with your husband.  I pray that you are safe.  If you are not, PLEASE contact your local authorities or a group that helps mothers get out of unsafe situations WITH their children immediately.  I'm afraid that having weight-loss surgery may worsen your situation.

Take care - and keep in touch!

Maryann,

I agree.  If you or your children are in danger, GET HELP IMMEDIATELY!    Your decision to have weight loss surgery may put you in a worse situation than you are already in.  Alot of spouses get jealous when the weight starts coming off.

I am here if you want to talk.  PM me and I'll answer as soon as I can.

Rona