I don't really understand why

Cira:  Is public humiliation really necessary?  If one doesn't know the true reason why any of these folks didn't (or couldn't) follow through, then (I feel) it's best not to shame them. What if one of them was a flood victim in Missouri, or a tornado victim in the South?  If one of these horrible disasters struck my family, then the last thing on my mind would be getting to a computer and letting someone know that I could not send a $15 gift. I've been a good pal and certainly I understand your frustration, but isn't public shame against the rules of this and many forums -- and just plain 'ole wrong?  Just my 2 cents.  ~ Kim

Hi Kim, Trust me these people are just not right. I am not looking for public humiliation. When you have people receiving gifts and not sending out gifts months one or two months and can not even reply to my messages but tells their pal that they have received their gifts that is down right wrong.   This is not an easy task. Especially when I have donated a lot of my time to it. I have to deal with many people doing the same thing over and over each month, It comes to a point where hey enough is enough. Maybe people need to know that if they are going to purposely ignore the rules then they need to be called out. By the way I received your message. I have been very busy with the baby, my son having surgery and not doing so well after it and I very backed up with my emails plus this program takes a lot out of me.   Thanks for the email.