I don't really understand why

Cira S.
on 4/3/08 7:54 am - Charles Town , WV

people promise to commit and then they do not follow the rules, never send out the gifts on time or not send any at all. I am having a hell of a time trying to contact people I am not getting any answers to the emails I have sent or PMs. I think that is not right. I am tired of trying to get answers so I can tell your pal why you haven't sent out a gift yet. I would like to know why people are not contacting their pals to let them know that the gift is going to be sent out late? Why is it that people are not contacting their pals to send them encouraging emails? I am going through the list and whoever has not followed through is getting dropped from the program today and I will post your names so you know since I am tired of emailing everyone individually and I am not getting any answers. I thought we were all adults here!

I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
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Ladybugmom
on 4/6/08 3:12 am - Lockport, NY

RNY on 01/30/06

Cira, Some people just do this to get free gifts. It is a shame that people feel that it is ok to use other people. I say spread the names and let others know what kind of people they are. This is a volunteer exchange so why sign up if you are not good with your word. Thanks for doing this and I am sure you have better things to do with your time, like enjoying your new beautiful daughter than to play babysitter for ignorant people. Hugs, Chris

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Cira S.
on 4/8/08 2:04 am - Charles Town , WV

RNY on 03/06/07

Hi Chris, It is unbelievable! I have been dealing with a very hungry BFding baby and my 3 year old had surgery to remove his adenoids and tonsils. I have been so busy but I am going to do just that. Thanks for posting. I hope all is well with you.

I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
100Cira-1.jpg picture by negra266

SummerPinME
on 4/7/08 8:00 am - Lisbon, ME

RNY on 09/24/07

Yeah, I'd love the name of my lousy buddy so that I could email her and tell her how her failure to participate like she should makes me feel!!! Is that possible, Cira?

Updated ticker! Getting back on track! I WILL make my goal weight!!!!!!!

Cira S.
on 4/8/08 2:07 am - Charles Town , WV

RNY on 03/06/07

Hi Summer, I rather not have any problems on the forum. But I will post the names of the people I have dropped. I will not say who they were secret pals to to avoid any major problems. Sorry that your pal has made you feel bad. The worse thing is you are not the only one that is going through the same thing. It is not fair that's for sure. I want to thank you for keeping your promise despite your pal didn't. She had normally kept her promise before so I wonder if she is having major issues. I hope all is well with her since I have not received any response from the personal message I sent her through OH and emails to her private email address. ((((((hugs))))))

I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
100Cira-1.jpg picture by negra266

SummerPinME
on 4/8/08 3:30 am - Lisbon, ME

RNY on 09/24/07

Thanks Cira. I can understand your not wanting to tell me who my deadbeat buddy was!!! I'd be interested in who was dropped though. I'll be interested in seeing that! When are you posting it?

Updated ticker! Getting back on track! I WILL make my goal weight!!!!!!!

Cira S.
on 4/8/08 8:10 am - Charles Town , WV

RNY on 03/06/07

I will post it as soon as I can. My 3 year old son is in a lot of pain from his surgery and my newborn has been keeping me very busy and not to mention my 6 year old too. lol So as soon as I can I will post it. Just keep checking. Thanks for understanding.

I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
100Cira-1.jpg picture by negra266

teresannycs_secretpal
on 4/8/08 5:56 am - It's A Secret!!!, NC

Our "term" should be up soon should it not?

Cira S.
on 4/8/08 8:08 am - Charles Town , WV

RNY on 03/06/07

Yes this month is the last gift for this quarter. Please let me know if you are going to continue for the next quarter. Email me at [email protected] and let me know. Thanks!

I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
100Cira-1.jpg picture by negra266

SummerPinME
on 4/11/08 10:35 pm - Lisbon, ME

RNY on 09/24/07

Are you going to post the names of "the children" who can't play by the rules??

Updated ticker! Getting back on track! I WILL make my goal weight!!!!!!!

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