What is going on? Can someone please tell me???

Ok I am sending gifts and cards every month. I have recieved one gift and that was in February. Ok I love sending my secret pal gifts. I thought I would be assigned a new person who would be MY secret pal. I have no idea what is going on. I haven't heard a word from anyone. I am so frustrated. Is anyone even reading the posts? I AM GETTING FRUSTRATED. If I don't recieve an explanation soon. I will be leaving the sb program. I will however be unofficially still sending my gifts out to the person I was originally assigned.

I hear you. I enjoy finding things for my secret pal also, but had not sent anything to her in a couple of months. (It was all piling up in my dining room.) Knowing that I was having several issues going on and not getting to mailing them, my wonderful husband sent them off for me. I was contacted and told that my secret buddy (the one who is supposed to send to me) would be re-assigned to send to my buddy instead since my buddy had not recieved anything in a couple of months. I said I did not think that would work well, because I have had two different buddies assigned to send to me and have never recieved a thing!!! I am still going to send to my buddy, whether I am officially assigned to or not, but I have never recieved a note, card, or anything from anyone. I hope to really get to know my buddy once the year is out, but I do not think I will do this again. People just do not do what they commit to do.

Jerri, The pal you had assigned to you prior to yesterday decided on her own not to send to you. She decided to send to a buddy who did not remain in the program....I didn't even know this until two days ago when you contacted me. However she has decided to quit and I assigned you out to a new buddy (your third) I know for a fact she will be a good buddy. Please be patient and know she will be sending something out in July. I will bet my life on it. ~~hugs and well wishes~~ Chris

Lisa...Your pal was assigned to you on May 25th and on the 26th I sent her your questionair. I am waiting for her to reply to my emails....I will let you know as soon as I hear...I am so sorry you are having a rough time with your pal. I too have not received a gift since Feb. I wish I could make everyone do what they promised but unfortunately I can't. Please be patient and hopefully soon you will hear... ~~hugs and well wishes~~ Chris

hi chris i think this buddy thing is a wonderful program. however i wish there was something you could do about the ones signing up and not doing their job. this is only a joke but you know how they post or say they will post your check up for all to see if it bounceslike in a restraunt ????? well maybe you could tell these people that you will be posting their name up when they dont fulfill their duty of being a buddy to someone after so long of time. maybe that will scare people enough to not want the embarrassment. this is a good thing you have started but i feel bad for the ones not getting a gift. have a great day everyone! misty

Lisa your pal emailed me today and said she did not know she was your pal??? Not sure why she says that as I have sent all her emails to the same address as I did today. Anyway I did ask her to send you out a gift and an email asap! Please be patient and I am so sorry you are feeling abandoned! ~~hugs and well wishes~~ Chris

Thanks so much for the update. I am still available if you need any help. I am not blaming you for any of this. I am really grateful that you have taken this on. I am here to back you up. Take good care.