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White Dove
on 4/7/25 6:56 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

Jim, it great how well you do with running. I get tired thinking about it. And the fishing sounds like so much fun. What kind of fish you go after and do you catch and release or take them home for meals?

I would love to have my cat talk back and explain what is wrong. I had him groomed yesterday and a very short cut. He has so much heavy hair and it is so hard to keep vacuumed up. But he seemed like he was in shock after the trim which is shaved on his body with just a maine and big ball on his tail like a lion.

I felt terrible and he was so sad all afternoon. He is acting better today. I always worried about people going into a kind of shock when too much hair was removed at once. This is the first time I had a cat groomed that way. But it should really help with no needing to constantly clean up shedding hair.

We are back to cold and rainy days again. But getting so much closer to spring and lots of daffidals and tulips coming up. It feels like it should be Easter but that is so late this year. It should be a lot nicer for egg hunts. We have had them in the snow some years. So looking forward to warm sunny days again.

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White Dove
on 4/4/25 11:30 am
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

I like to donate to organizations that set up and take the donation out of my account so I don't have to remember. At present it is just PBS and a local cat rescue group. I used to donate a lot to church and to political groups. Not so much anymore. AA rainy few days coming up, but it is 60 and sunny today. I have a groomer coming Sunday for my cat. The warm weather is really making him shred and I am going to try a short cut called the Teddy Bear cut. I am sure he will look fine and give me a break from constant va*******

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White Dove
on 4/3/25 7:01 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

Back when it was in for white people to get an Afro, my mother got one. Her hair was permed with the tiny little red rods and then used an Afro pick to fluff it up. She did not drive back then. When my father came to pick her up, he hated the hair and did not want to take her back looking like that.

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White Dove
on 4/3/25 6:56 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

I used to refuse to take a kid immediately from really long to really short hair. Even if they think they want it, it can be a shock and take time to get used to. I would do it in stages. Start with a shorter style about shoulder length and let them get used to that. Then go shorter the next cut.

I have had some haircuts that I was not too happy with but after a week or so I would get used to it and it would grow out some.

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White Dove
on 4/1/25 7:39 am, edited 4/1/25 12:39 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Tuesday Menu?

Chrissy that is a wonderful story.

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White Dove
on 3/31/25 5:57 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

I put the toilet paper over but don't get too concerned if someone else puts it under. My paper towels are on a holder on the counter. I just put it my way the next time I replace a roll.

Your chicken waffles sound delicious.

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White Dove
on 3/28/25 8:17 am
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

I would not last long because too old and weak to fight and I would not believe that it was real. So would probably be their first victim. But barring those types of events, I have a good chance to live a long life. Many in my family have reached late 90's and some lived into their 100's.

I have one aunt and one uncle still living. They are both healthy and sharp as a tack, but both have problems with their legs and are in wheelchairs. They are both widowed and have always been close. Now they live in the same Jewish longterm care center in New Jersey. Aunt Nora turned 92 this week. Uncle Mike is 96.



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White Dove
on 3/27/25 4:43 pm
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

My cats always hide when they see the carrier. I have been on the phone with the vet's office while crawling under the bed to try to catch the cat and get it in the carrier. Good luck with your trip today.

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White Dove
on 3/27/25 6:59 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

Love that idea for protein hamburger roll. I love the smell of baking bread and the smell of freshly laundered clothes from the dryer.

People get so entitled expecting ti.e off too count towards vacation. Once they have a perk like that they will resent losing it.

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White Dove
on 3/26/25 7:45 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday Menu?

I love German food and can't wait to hear about your meals. Enjoy your evening.

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White Dove
on 3/26/25 7:42 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday Menu?

I used Franklin planner for years. Ended up using their software and pages that went in the printer. I quit when I retired and after awhile started missing appointments and forgetting to do things. I ended up creating a Word document To Do list. I spend 15 minutes every do adding and removing tasks. I have friends who never plan and never write things down. I need that structure or worry that I am forgetting things.

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White Dove
on 3/25/25 9:52 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Tuesday Menu?

Is there a TNR in your area? They loan you a trap and do neutering for a low fee. The one here also sells brand name flea medicines for a low price. It is so sad that people dump cats like that.

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White Dove
on 3/25/25 8:49 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Tuesday Menu?

Ice cream is not something I can eat anymore. I used to love Breyers Strawberries and Cream. If my husband and son were out of town I would buy a box of that and eat it all weekend. It was really creamy and had wonderful strawberries. That was 30 or 40 years ago and nothing like that anymore. I do have a half gallon of Breyers Lactose Free Vanilla in the freezer. It is the only thing I can eat and only a small di**** gets rock hard so I have a scoop that is chemically treated and gets warm in your hand. Then it is easy to scoop some out.

Still pretty cold, but will be 69 on Saturday. I can see all the green buds on the trees and the sun is shining today. So nice to know spring is coming back.

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White Dove
on 3/24/25 8:28 am, edited 3/24/25 1:28 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

I rarely drank coffee and my go to drink has always been Coca Cola. Diet Coke for many years. Now it is regular Cherry Coke. But I only drink about an ounce at a time and a 20-ounce bottle does me for a week or so.

Jennifer, you are amazing with everything you get accomplished. I love shrimp so will try that recipe.

Jim, congratulations on your fitness. Long ago, when I ran, I told myself even if you end up walking or come in last, almost nobody else in the world would be able to finish those runs.

Chrissy, it was down in the 30's here all weekend. Also some rain, so great weather for watching movies.

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White Dove
on 3/21/25 1:31 pm
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

Love that cat bed and how organized everything looks.

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White Dove
on 3/20/25 9:06 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

I swear when my cat has to vomit, he holds it until he can get to the carpet. Someone put on Facebook that the perfect alarm clock would be the sound of a cat puking. My cat has a little cat tree next a window and he sleeps there most of the day. He is so playful and loves to fetch. He will wake me up at night and put his ball in my hand and then wait for me to throw.

There are lots of squirrels here too and many of my neighbors put peanuts out for them. They are fun to watch and some of them are so tame they will come up to you and beg for food if you sit outside.

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White Dove
on 3/20/25 9:00 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

If you have a cat in the yard the rabbits will go away. I know you do not want a cat.

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White Dove
on 3/20/25 5:55 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

I gave in and took a pain pill last night. After three weeks of constant pain, the relief was amazing. I did not realize that I had fractured the pelvis and did not understand why I was hurting so badly. I realize now that getting the pain under control will help with the healing process.

It sounds terrible in some ways but I stopped watching the new about a year ago. I would get so upset over things that were going on and finally came to the conclusion that I cannot change or control or cure other people. I do look at the headlines on line and have a fairly good overview of what is going on, but don't put the TV on and watch. When I did watch the news, I liked the Cleveland stations. I also like PBS stations because I feel they are unbiased.

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White Dove
on 3/19/25 9:39 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday Menu?

At ER they did xrays and said nothing was broken. Doctor ordered cat scan and they did that Friday. I got results back last night so now understand why it was so painful. It is unbelivable that the employee thought he could be rehired. I know you are glad that he is gone.

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White Dove
on 3/19/25 7:31 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday Menu?

Just rest. I am giving in and going to take some pain medication. The weather here has been beautiful and I really want to be outside in the sunshine. I should be good by the time the pool is open. Usually in May if there are hot days. I was so upset with myself for having pain when I thought nothing was broken. I have a good doctor working with me now. But it will be a lot of rest until it heals.

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White Dove
on 3/19/25 6:29 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday Menu?

Great news about your outage. So glad you are done with that and getting back to normal schedule. Asking where to send flowers to the "dead" sister was a brilliant move. Since you could not ask for proof of her death. It is so sad that people do not value their job, but I believe some of that has to do with mental issues.

I fell a few weeks ago and was going to start physical therapy this week, but they did another scan and I have fractured pelvis, so it will be staying off of my feet until it heals. When I went to the ER they said nothing was broken. The doctor could not figure out why there was so much pain, so he ordered a cat scan and that shows the fracture.

I was upset with myself for having pain, but now see that there is a reason for it. I am fortunate that my family is able to help with some of the things I have not been able to do. My sister is doing my cleaning, laundry, and taking the garbage out, and changing bag in litter robot. Just stopping in and checking on my helps a lot.

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White Dove
on 3/18/25 8:30 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Tuesday Menu?

25 was great physically, but mentally I was still deciding what I wanted to do in life. My son was born right before I turned 25. I was sometimes overwhelmed with all the work of a new baby. I only took six weeks off of work and then went back full time while working out child care and a lot more housework and laundry.

I think I liked being over 30 better. I had my routines in place by then and felt relaxed and able to enjoy things more. I have twin sisters who are 63 and they are both in great health and able to do everything they want. I started to lose my strength at 70. I remember being at Cedar Point and having to rent a mobility scooter because I could not keep up with the walking.

That had the advantage that we were able to go the head of the line at the rides. I kept working out and did physical theraphy but never got the strength back that I had in my 60s.

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White Dove
on 3/17/25 11:16 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

I had to look up póg mo thóin. LOL

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White Dove
on 3/17/25 11:14 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

Time goes by so quickly and I can't believe you have had Ruby for two years. Happy Gotcha Day, Ruby.

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White Dove
on 3/17/25 11:12 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

Weekend sounds so nice. On the plane with sunscreen and pool chemicals would be a bit uncomfortable and I know you were happy to get home to your shower.

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