What's on your Tuesday Menu

catwoman7
on 2/21/23 5:54 am, edited 2/20/23 9:56 pm
RNY on 06/03/15

Mornin' All!

I got an email last night from a good friend's sister. My friend was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last summer and given 12 months to live. Well, he didn't make it to twelve months. He died on Friday after seven months. It was a rough night. A mutual friend and I have been trying to set up a visit with him for at least a month, and he kept telling us to hold off awhile longer because he was feeling pretty awful. It's fine - his health and well-being were more important than us getting to visit him, so that wasn't my point in saying this - it's more that I now understand how and why he was feeling so bad. He was close to the end. I'm glad I DID get to visit with him a handful of times since his diagnosis (all before Christmas) - and we had fairly frequent contact over email. There's a visitation on Thursday night. The weather is supposed to be scary from tomorrow afternoon to Thursday afternoon, but I'm going to try to make it over there come hell or high water. We've known each other for 35 years, he lived with me once for about a month when he was apartment hunting, and there were two years when we had apartments across the hall from each other, so we were in each other's apts practically all the time. Anyway, ugh. This has all been on my mind and will be for quite awhile, I think.

I've been fortunate with my online classes since I think they've all included lectures. Either live lectures (via Zoom), or if the class was "asynchronous" (i.e., not at a specific class time - so you could listen to the lectures whenever), they recorded their lectures and uploaded them to the class site. I think I would be ticked if that were not the case.

QOTD: I'm supposed to average 100+ grams a day because we discovered early out that I malabsorb protein. If I don't average 100+ a day, my prealbumin level tanks. The whole reason I still do a protein shake every morning is because if I do that, I'll pretty much always be at 100 or more grams by the end of the day. I COULD get it all in my food, but I don't want to bother with having to obsess about protein all day - if I'm having enough, if I need more, what else could I eat if I need more. I don't have to worry about that if I have my mid-morning shake, since it's a rare day when I'm not up to 100 or more by then end of the day.

B: plain skyr with fruit, coffee with half & half

MS: protein shake

L: egg salad on either a couple of Wasa crisp breads or between two slices of 35-calorie regular bread

AS: protein muffin or Ratio yogurt

D: salad with turkey breast, a diced hard-boiled egg (maybe) and light dressing

ex: I have kind of a busy day today, but I'll do something. If I don't , the negative calorie adjustment on my MFP/Fitbit pairing only gives me around 1200 calories to eat (with at least SOME exercise - like 30 minutes of cardio or 5000-ish steps, it gives me 1450 - which is way better..) (my maintenance level is around 1600 - so even at 1450, I'll lose weight - but slowly)

RNY 06/03/15 by Michael Garren (Madison, WI)

HW: 373 SW: 316 GW: 150 LW: 138 CW: 163

Theduffman27
on 2/21/23 6:04 am
VSG on 11/19/14

Very sorry to hear of your friends passing.

  1. Pre- Surgery/ Type 2 Diabetes, High BP and Cholesterol, treated with 6 medications, including Insulin. Post Op- low dose BP med 2022, Mounjaro 10/2023

HW - 299 , Consult day weight - 277, Day of surgery ( 11/19/2014) - 259,LW - 178, GW - 195, CW- 194.2 - reached goal

Emiepie
on 2/21/23 6:13 am
RNY on 08/11/14

Sorry about the loss of your friend, Trish.

RNY 8/11/14 with Dr. Kelvin Higa PS Lipectomy 4/12/17 with Dr. John Burnett HW291.4/CW165/GW150

Cautiously_Hopeful
on 2/21/23 6:38 am
WLS on 07/15/22

Oh gosh, I'm so sorry about your friend. Life truly can be a tenuous thing...never know how much time you'll get. Glad you were able to spend some time together over the years.

HW 282, LW 123.4 (8/29/23), CW 144.4

Pre-op-33, M1-12, M2-17, M3-14, M4-11, M5-14, M6-5, M7-6, M8-5, M9-22, M10-6, M11-5, M12-2, M13-2, M14-5

Greateight
on 2/21/23 6:41 am
RNY on 08/29/18

Trish, I am sorry for your loss.

Jim Age 58 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4

Grim_Traveller
on 2/21/23 7:10 am
RNY on 08/21/12

I'm sorry about your friend. That's such a horrible disease.

6'3" tall, male.

Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.

M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.

Melody P.
on 2/21/23 7:12 am - Amarillo, TX

So sorry for the loss of your friend.

Mel

Queen JB
on 2/21/23 7:32 am
RNY on 07/20/15

Very sorry to hear about your friend. I hope the your good memories together bring you joy as you remember him!

  • High Weight before LapBand: 200 (2008)
  • High Weight before RNY: 160 (2015)
  • Lowest post-op weight: 110 (2016)
  • Maintenance Weight: 120 (2017-2019)
  • Battling Regain Weight: 135 (current)

Icecream Dreamer
on 2/21/23 8:02 am - Central Coast, CA
RNY on 06/26/17

Very sorry about your friend.

SW:261 6/26/17 GW:150 10/6/18

CW: 142

PGW: 140-142

lmfontana4
on 2/21/23 8:21 am
RNY on 03/24/21

I am sorry to hear about your friend. That is a difficult loss.

HW 296 SW 267.8 GW 130 LW 128.2 CW 131.6

Age 55 5 ft 4 inches

Roux-en-Y 3/24/21

Internal Hernia 1/14/22

Gallbladder 3/22

Volvulus 10/7/23-Reversal of RNY 11/19/23

The last of the human freedoms, to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances. (Frankl, 1946)

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