What's on your (PHOTO) Friday Menu?

Cautiously_Hopeful
on 1/27/23 8:50 am
WLS on 07/15/22

Oh gosh. Somehow, this sounds worse coming from family! I'm sorry you have it going on.

HW 282, LW 123.4 (8/29/23), CW 144.4

Pre-op-33, M1-12, M2-17, M3-14, M4-11, M5-14, M6-5, M7-6, M8-5, M9-22, M10-6, M11-5, M12-2, M13-2, M14-5

Greateight
on 1/27/23 5:33 am
RNY on 08/29/18

I'm so sorry to hear that.

Jim Age 58 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4

Cautiously_Hopeful
on 1/27/23 6:28 am
WLS on 07/15/22

Thanks, Jim. People can make life fun.

HW 282, LW 123.4 (8/29/23), CW 144.4

Pre-op-33, M1-12, M2-17, M3-14, M4-11, M5-14, M6-5, M7-6, M8-5, M9-22, M10-6, M11-5, M12-2, M13-2, M14-5

Mkess
on 1/27/23 5:54 am
VSG on 08/09/21

That has to be so scary. I'm sorry that you've had to deal with that at all and for so long.

HW: 371 SW(8/9/21): 324 CW: 215. 0 lbs til goal of skin reduction surgery. I'm still looking for a new plastic surgeon.

"Every day is a good day. There is something to learn, care and celebrate." - Amit Ray

Cautiously_Hopeful
on 1/27/23 6:30 am
WLS on 07/15/22

Thanks, Matt. Part of the fun of life choices, I guess! We do some silly things when we're young(er).

HW 282, LW 123.4 (8/29/23), CW 144.4

Pre-op-33, M1-12, M2-17, M3-14, M4-11, M5-14, M6-5, M7-6, M8-5, M9-22, M10-6, M11-5, M12-2, M13-2, M14-5

Greateight
on 1/27/23 6:37 am
RNY on 08/29/18

Marie, I am pretty sure that you meant this as a Butterfly Effect comment, but just to be clear, this is only the fault of the perpetrator.

Jim Age 58 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4

Cautiously_Hopeful
on 1/27/23 6:52 am
WLS on 07/15/22

Hi Jim, you're right, I did. No point applying the "if I knew then" component. It wasn't a wise choice of mine at that time to choose to date him, though. I realized it pretty quickly but yep, there have been consequences.

Thanks for reinforcing this. I'm mostly making light of it as a coping mechanism but I do take it seriously. He's got...issues.

HW 282, LW 123.4 (8/29/23), CW 144.4

Pre-op-33, M1-12, M2-17, M3-14, M4-11, M5-14, M6-5, M7-6, M8-5, M9-22, M10-6, M11-5, M12-2, M13-2, M14-5

Emiepie
on 1/27/23 5:58 am
RNY on 08/11/14

I don't have any advice, but that is very scary.

RNY 8/11/14 with Dr. Kelvin Higa PS Lipectomy 4/12/17 with Dr. John Burnett HW291.4/CW165/GW150

Cautiously_Hopeful
on 1/27/23 6:31 am
WLS on 07/15/22

Thanks Kelly. We'll see how it goes! I have to keep posting as part of the job expectations but hoping he fades out again.

HW 282, LW 123.4 (8/29/23), CW 144.4

Pre-op-33, M1-12, M2-17, M3-14, M4-11, M5-14, M6-5, M7-6, M8-5, M9-22, M10-6, M11-5, M12-2, M13-2, M14-5

Partlypollyanna
on 1/27/23 7:57 am
RNY on 02/14/18

Not to make this any scarier than it already is, but if you feel that the company requirement to keep posting is also threatening your safety that is definitely a conversation to have with work as well. Given the incidences of DV that have also turned into workplace violence that has to be a significant concern. Knowing that he is using your linked in as the stalking point that creates a direct tie to your company location.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

HW: 306 SW: 282 GW: 145 (reached 2/6/19) CW:150

Jen

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