Pregnancy post RNY

I got pregnant with twins about a half year ago . I was overjoyed. My doctor said stay in an easy chair like a teddy bear don't move - you're a relatively old mother and it's a high risk pregnancy .

so I ate . I ate everything I wanted to because I imagined it might be good for the baby. The bottom line is I lost them I had a miscarriage and now I still look like a balloon I'm terribly depressed and I want my children ( crying )

I just have no idea how to pick myself up . This whole thing with being morbidly obese having the death sentence of diabetes makes this so much more painful and poignant .

I just want a happy secure family life and I literally have no idea how to stop overeating.... ((())) ty for your kindness and suggestions Eva

Eva,

I just want to send you love and a big hug.

Eva,

I am so sorry for your loss. Loss of any kind is difficult beyond words, but the loss of a pregnancy is devastating.

Have you sought professional support? I feel it would be of some benefit for you if you haven't. What you describe is traumatic and heart breaking. I would start with the mental aspect, and once you have some closure I would then perhaps focus on the rest.

sending you so much love.

Ava, stop. Are you drinking again?

That's just extremely mean and uncaring.

Could you really blame me for drinking in this situation?

But unfortunately my REAL problem is overeating excess food . And my gosh is it hard to stop !

i swam today 45 minutes and walked the same and yet I can't stop eating

That?s just extremely mean and uncaring.

Could you really blame me for drinking in this situation?

But unfortunately my REAL problem is overeating excess food . And my gosh is it hard to stop !

i swam today 45 minutes and walked the same and yet I can?t stop eating

no Ava, it?s not mean, it?s honest. You had done well stopping drinking and your sponsor would surely tell you that life events are life and not an excuse to drink again. Even a miscarriage. I?m pretty sure you are past child bearing age anyway.

you have posted crazy before , a hottie boyfriend snd you looking for a surrogate on this site, etc.

czll your sponsor snd get their help. You don?t have to do this.

Meanies . And I don't get it - why are people so much meaner over the " anonymous " internet than face 2 face ?

Im proud 2 say that this week I swam almost an hour every other day .... hard . I'm trying to focus on protein first and of course I feel fatter than ever ... but my body looks a little better every morning.

it's not mean. It's honest. E wouldn't bother if we hadn't seen this spiral before and if we didn't care.

"Mean" would be calling you a loser and a failure and a worthless human being for drinking.

"Please get help" is not mean.

Also .... I need to appreciate that my feet aren't so sensitive ... my skin is pulling in and I just look and feel younger and harder and more attractive every single day I work out

It really is a miracle