What is on your menu today (Monday) RNYers
on 3/13/19 10:49 am
OH has a glitch where sometimes a post will appear as though it was written by someone else; that's probably what happened here. I would suggest sending an email to Member Services and they can help fix!
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!
on 3/12/19 11:20 am - GTA, Ontario, Canada
Ladylost, I am sorry to hear about your job ending. But since you wrote it is a toxic environment then its good you no longer have to face that day in & day out. Don't know if you are looking for something else or are close to retirement and can just transition early. Either way I hope it all works out for you!
I hope your tummy is better today and you are rested.
Supershopper?
Jim Age 58 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4
Good Morning Daisy and Menuers,
Yesterday was a super bad day. I was observed by my principal last week and I got the write-up yesterday. It's not even my observation year, so I wasn't sure why he wanted to come in but whatever. The write up was horrible. In my 23 years of teaching I have never, not even once, received a needs improvement and yesterday he awarded me, not one but THREE! I was floored. The math lesson was a good lesson and I followed the lesson plan and the math program with fidelity, there was no reason to receive needs improvement. What I do know is that I am not a blonde or super skinny and that is what he prefers. I am not one of his favorites (he does have his favorites - the young, skinny, blonde teachers) because I am a bit of a squeaky wheel if something isn't right - classroom conditions related. Other than that, I keep to myself, do my job and stay away from the office. I was so upset that I wasn't able to be in the staff picture because he decided to meet with me about the observation at 8 and pictures were at 8:20. The good news in all of this? Besides he is an a$$ is that principals move schools and he is completing year 5 - he will be out soon. Sorry for the rant but it leads to...
Accountability: I was so sick to my stomach after our meeting I couldn't eat. I did sip on hot tea all day because it seemed so comforting. But when I got home the flood gate opened as I ranted to DH and ate my way through the house. Today is a new day and I am ready to move forward.
TSS: 1 year 2-months/163 pounds
B: PP shake and a hardboiled egg
L: ham and cheese with a little salad
S: pear and cheese
D: Party meatballs - meatballs, chili sauce, and sugar-free jelly
I haven't put it in MFP yet but I will.
Have a great day!
You can't measure your achievements with someone else's yardstick!
Revision from lapband to RNY 12/26/17 with Dr. Caitlin Halbert
HW 260 SW 248 CW 154 GW 145
Gallbladder removed 9/18
Beth
Oh no! So sorry that you had such a horrible review. Glad you kept hydrated though. Deep breath and do your best to get back to plan today.
As for your principal moving on, in my 16+ years at my job, I have really struggled with some folks, especially some of the management. The good news is that I have outlasted most of them. Not pleasant but I am still here and doing my job and they've either retired or moved on to harass someone else!
HW: 248+, SW (RNY: 2/28/17): 244, GW (10/17): 125; LW: 115; 45# regain (19-20); CW: 135.6; new goal: 135; Plastics: Ext mastopexy, Ext abdominoplasty-5/18/2018; diagnosed w/ gastroparesis 11/20.
I have outlasted 6 or 7 principals. He too shall pass on to another school and I truly hope the next principal we get is dynamic and a true leader.
You can't measure your achievements with someone else's yardstick!
Revision from lapband to RNY 12/26/17 with Dr. Caitlin Halbert
HW 260 SW 248 CW 154 GW 145
Gallbladder removed 9/18
Beth
Sounds like you are a member of the stress and emotional eating club of which I am the president! So sorry about your review but there is no reason to let yourself feel bad because your boss is an idiot. At least he's headed on to torment someone else soon. Have a great day and don't let anyone else rain on your parade!