Second Thoughts
I decided on RNY because I felt that it would help me more long term. I have been successful in weight loss MANY times over the last 15 years, but unable to keep it off and just kept yo-yo'ing. I wanted the risks of not following the restrictions so that it would kind of give me a reason NOT to go back to old habits (sweets/binge eating)...and because I know that there is more instance of re-gain with the sleeve, statistically speaking.
I also have a history of reflux and I knew that the Sleeve could make that worse but that was not my deciding factor.
It is definitely a personal decision and my surgeon and PCP were both kind of like "well half a dozen of one, 6 of the other" for me-- so they basically felt like I could have success with either surgery. Nobody knows you and your body and your habits better than yourself though, so try some introspection...maybe make yourself a list of pro's and cons for both options and then discuss them with your doctor.
good luck!

Amber
RNY 2/12/18
5'4 1/2" tall, HW : 315 lbs, Surgery Wt: 297lbs.
M1: -17.5lbs M2: -11.5lbs M3: -12lbs M4: -13lbs M5: -13lbs M6: -13.5lbs M7: -12lbs M8: -14lbs M9: -10.5lbs M10: -7.75lbs M11: -5.25lbs M12: -4lbs M13: -3lbs M14: -7lbs M15: -2lbs M16: -1lb **made it to goal!**
CW 148
I can't tell you what is better for you, of course, but I wanted to chime in on two things:
1) Dumping - I see this as a blessing. I don't actually dump, but I do get Reactive Hypoglycemia (if you don't what this is, it's basically another very unpleasant reaction from eating sugar). It's only happened once a few times in the last 2 years - generally when I unknowingly ingest sugar. But those episodes REALLY SUCKED. So it keeps me honest - it kills any and all cravings I might have for sugar. I don't even think about sugar anyone (other than to watch servers like a hawk so they don't serve me any!). Since I shoulnd't be eating sugar, it makes it SUPER easy.
2) Knee Replacements - I also need two knee replacements (no cartilage remaining, disintegrated ACL, buckled PCL - the works). I was originally told this in my mid-30s and advised to wait until I was at least 50 to get them done. I'm 44 now (and 2 years post-op), and thinking I may never need the replacements. My knees are nowhere near "great", but the chronic daily pain I experienced for so many years is gone. Sure, if I stand up for hours, or walk for 10 miles in a day they get stiff, swollen and sore, but other than that they feel pretty good. I can run, I can ski, I can hike, I can do pretty much whatever I want.
Your mileage may vary on the knees as everyone is different, but I just wanted to let you know there maybe an upside you haven't even considered! I know the elimination of NSAIDs was a huge concern for me given my chronic pain, and something I struggled with pre-op. I generally took 800mg ibuprofen 2-4 times a day at least 5 days a week. Now I don't need it at all. I rarely even take a tylenol.
As a sidenote, I also needed one of my hips replaced. The weight loss had absolutely no impact on my hip, so I had it replaced one year post-op. Losing the weight made the risks so much lower, the recovery so much faster, and the joint should last a whole lot longer. That surgery was a piece of cake, I was back to 100% in no time, and I forget I ever even had it done!
Bottom Line: It's a win, win, win, win! Ha!

I also decided on RNY because I have diabetes and it's more likely to go into remission with RNY than with the sleeve. And I also have bad arthritis in my knees, worse on the right, and had been discussing a knee replacement with the orthopedist. Prior to surgery, I was getting steroid shots in my knee three or four times a year and still having pain. I'm nearly six months out, have lost over 80 lbs, and have almost no knee pain unless I really overdo it with stairs or hills, and even then it gets better with two Tylenol. I haven't had dumping, but the closest I've come to eating anything with sugar is a small serving of Halo Top ice cream.
It is a very personal decision. The risks are real but small, and you'l figure out what's right for you.
on 4/22/18 7:46 am
Hi, As a three time revision band to sleeve to RNY, I would do what others suggest. Pros and cons list.
I had really bad reflux with the sleeve. I also regained some of my weight with the sleeve because you sleeve/banana does expand in size over time and you will need more to be satisfied.

Babs in GA
HW 348 Revision SW 224 GW 165 CW 148
Revision from sleeve to RNY
Pre op: -5 M1-12 lbs M2 11 lb M3-5lb M4 -9lb M5 -2 M6-6 M7-7 M8 -4 M9-5 M10 -2 M11 -2
200 lbs lost and 17 pounds below goal !