Pretty mad and depressed
I understand you being angry but as others have mentioned why are you letting it get you down? We can't control what other people say or do but we can work on our own reactions. Let it go and celebrate your success. This guy doesn't deserve this attention.
Congratulations on your success!
RNY Jan 12, 2017 Lost 137 lbs but regained 60.
77 lbs lost and counting!
Losing the regain! I got this!
Thank you everyone for the encouraging words. I don't know why I let it get to me but I did. I have now let it go and will continue on my merry way. I appreciate everyone's responses and encouraging words. It was a rough day and that was just another kick in the you know what's. I have now built a bridge and gotten over it. Mind over matter, I don't mind and it (he) don't matter.
My own mother has embarrassed me several times. She commented on me looking "anorexic" when I was around 150 lbs (normal weight for my height). Another time she posted a comment on one of my vacation pics "Looks like you and R are having a great time...but EAT SOMETHING!!!!"
People just aren't used to us in a smaller body. Try not to let it bother you. People are rude. They'll be the first to let you know that you're packing it back on, I'm sure.
Lanie; Age: 43; Surgery Date (VSG): 8/12/14 w/complications resulting in RNY next day;
Height: 5' 6" SW: 249 Comfort Zone: 135-140 CW: 138 (10/13/17)
M1: -25 lbs M2: -12 M3: -13 M4: -7 M5: -11 M6: -10 M7: -7 M8: -7 M9: -3 M10: -8 M11: -4 M12: -4
5K PR - 24:15 (4/23/16) First 10K - 53:30 (10/18/15)
