is there anyone out there like me??
on 12/27/16 2:41 pm
"Many of us (myself included) have used that full sensation as an emotional crutch. A full stomach comforts us." Exactly what I have been feeling lately. Although I am only 5 weeks out, have no hunger and could care less about food right now, I really miss this! That satisfaction, that feeling of full numb comfort that food used to give me. I swear I'm in mourning....
RNY 11/21/16 - HW/SW 309 LW 150
REVISION 4/10/23 - HW 240 SW 225 CW 164 GW 155
on 12/28/16 8:01 am
Now almost two years out, I really appreciate this comment. Lately, I have not felt as much restriction. My portions are not giant, but of course I can eat more than in the first few months. I have been concerned lately that I might be ignoring my body's signals. Thanks so much for this insight.
on 12/27/16 2:55 pm
Glad you are in therapy. I am three years out and still in therapy. I have to really look at why I am eating. I do write down what I am feeling at times to make sure I am not emotional eating.
Learning a new way of life early out does make things much easier. There are some who feel more restriction than others. I have days were I do not feel like eating. I have others that I can't stop.
Just because we can doesn't mean we should. I try to remember that daily.
on 12/27/16 5:19 pm
I can relate to the hunger. I had RNY a couple of weeks before you. At first I was hungry all the time, which I wasn't expecting at all. I weighed all my food and never felt satisfied, let alone full. However, in the last few weeks I have started feeling full after eating small amounts. So maybe you will get there too. I also can eat anything and everything without dumping. I was very disappointed with that. But I am learning to accept the fact that sweets, carbs, etc. Are just not good for my body. Keep at it, and hopefully this will get better!
Hi, Pat! I do get that full (uncomfortable) feeling after eating a very small amount of protein. As you know, I cannot tolerate almost any meats, which is hard. Also unfortunately for me, I do not dump. Have tried several things this holiday season, and dumping is not me. I was hoping I would have that to keep me on the straight and narrow... luckily I get full easily as long as I get my protein in. It is an individual journey tor each of us... I have been envious of your ability to eat all proteins so easily ;0. So glad you have some luck with your "tool" though. I am with you in spirit!
I made a wonderful beef stew with red wine and vegetables tonight for dinner tonight. Well the idea was... an ounce of the beef and I had to leave the table, and it was TWO HOURS before I could move without feeling like I would lose the tiny bit of stew I ate. I was sick as could be. Horrible feeling.
However. I could eat carbs all day and feel fine. Great, in fact. Just part of the ride, I guess.