NVS and Distorted Self Image...OR?
Hedgehogs give better fashion advice than me so I will not torment you with that, but you look fabulous!
I follow a ketogenic diet post-op. I also have a diagnosis of binge eating disorder. Feel free to ask me about either!
It is not that we have so little time but that we lose so much...the life we receive is not short but we make it so; we are not ill provided but use what we have wastefully. -- Seneca, On the Shortness of Life
I am not big on the cold shoulder look on me...but I LOVE both of them on you... the red looks great and love the zipper detail on the black....
Cynthia 5'11" RNY 7/23/2014
Goal reached 17 months. 220lb Weight Loss
Plastic Surgery Dr. Joseph Michaels - LBL and Hernia Repair 2/29/16, Arm Lift, BL, 5/2/16, Leg Lift 7/25/16
#lifeisanadventure #fightthegoodfight #noregrets
I feel like it would be a sin if you do not buy the red one! I will be that little devil on your shoulder saying BUY THE RED ONE!!! LOL nude pumps and skin toned panty hose would look killer :-) P.S. where did you get the silly rule about being 51 and nothing above the knee? If you have nice knees, show off those knees! You only live once pammieanne!
Seriously, you do look gorgeous in all of them. But that red one would knock socks off.
The knee situation is debatable... I haven't paid enough attention to them to decide if they're OK or not LOL
Height 5'5" HW 260 SW 251 CW 141.6 (2/27/18)
RNY 5-16-16 Pre-Op 9lbs, M1-18.5lbs, M2-18.1lbs, M3-14.8lbs, M4-10.4lbs, M5-9.2lbs, M6-7lbs, M7-6.2lbs, M8-8.8lbs,M9-7.8lbs, M10-1 lb, M11-.6lbs, M12-4.4lbs
I vote for the first black one, the red one, or the black lace. You need to go with the one that makes you feel the best. Then it doesn't matter what anyone else is wearing because you will feel great in what you have on. I personally would go with the long sleeve dress vs. short sleeve, because I don't like my flying squirrel wings. Definitely wear a heel vs. boots. I have a gala ball on Thursday night (work function). I am wearing a plain black dress with sparkly jewelry and some heels. Definitely not my normal outfit, but I love the dress and wore it on a cruise over Thanksgiving, so I am getting multiple uses out of it. Have fun. Just say yes to the dress!
Cory
5'7" Starting Weight: 305
Current Weight: 145
The first one, black with stripes, is a great everyday look for you. Red for special occasions like the holiday party. Black lace for other events.
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.
You look awesome in all of them. Go for the one you like the best. I so know what you mean about distorted self image. On Sunday I pulled an outfit from my "thinner days closet". It fit great, but I must have asked DH 100 times if it was too tight, too short, etc. I'm 57 and don't go above the knees, but that's a personal choice, not necessarily age related. And the red one may be above the knees, but it's certainly not a mini or micro-mini so very appropriate. I'm sure you will rock whatever you decide.
P.S. I wear tights all the time, but I'm definitely not a style diva so probably not the best to give style advice 
Surgery Date June 3, 2016
HW: 329 W at first consult 290. SW 238, LW 128, CW 139
