What's On Your Tuesday Menu, RNYers?
I probably wouldn't tell my DH unless the guy truly made a pass at me, or said something inappropriate to me. Just being nice could be construed (and defended) to be innocent.
But, if the dude does anything that definitely crosses the line, let loose on him!!!
(If he starts any 'locker-room talk' take him down!!!)
Height 5'5" HW 260 SW 251 CW 141.6 (2/27/18)
RNY 5-16-16 Pre-Op 9lbs, M1-18.5lbs, M2-18.1lbs, M3-14.8lbs, M4-10.4lbs, M5-9.2lbs, M6-7lbs, M7-6.2lbs, M8-8.8lbs,M9-7.8lbs, M10-1 lb, M11-.6lbs, M12-4.4lbs
I didn't even tell my husband when a guy at the gym told me is is proud of the hard work I put in lifting weight, and that its nice to see a women lifting heavy! It was NOT creepy at all, and the guy wasnt flirting, but I knew my husband would get all "protective" about it! lol
If you think its harmless, and it doesnt get too creepy, I would just let it go.
I was walking into Target last week... I was feeling cute, it was gorgeous outside, and I had on my new boots, so I am guessing I was walking with confidence...
These two guys - probably in their early 30's walked past me, and I smiled at them and said Hi. (They were kinda gang looking tough boys, and I have it in my head no one will kill someone that is nice to them, so I tend to smile and acknowledge in that scenario).
One of the guys turns around and says to me "You are just beautiful!"
I politely said thanks... felt a little creeped out, and continued on my way. There is no way that would have happened 80 pounds ago. And I'm 51. Probably their mom's age!
Height 5'5" HW 260 SW 251 CW 141.6 (2/27/18)
RNY 5-16-16 Pre-Op 9lbs, M1-18.5lbs, M2-18.1lbs, M3-14.8lbs, M4-10.4lbs, M5-9.2lbs, M6-7lbs, M7-6.2lbs, M8-8.8lbs,M9-7.8lbs, M10-1 lb, M11-.6lbs, M12-4.4lbs
on 10/11/16 8:06 am - GTA, Ontario, Canada
Hi Menu Gang!
I have been MIA because I have been knocked out SICK. I got strep throat and then on top of that I got a really bad sinus infection, and I mean bad, I could not swallow from the strep and could not breathe from the sinus infection, it was really really horrible. I won't bore you all with details but I have lost weight, I am exhausted from not eating, drinking or sleeping, and even though our WLS "Mantra" is protein forward and drink your liquids I was not even able to do that. Still recovering and working at getting protein in and liquids in so pardon me if I am not quite "myself" yet.
QOTD: According to the "charts" I am a Gemini, but I personally don't buy into it at all. I think family genetics and home upbringing are what shape a person into who they are/become, but that's just me.
Time since surgery: 2 years and 11 months (wow I am one month away from 3 yrs post op)!
B: 1.5 hard boiled eggs with S&P
L: 2 oz of grilled chicken with hot sauce
S: one babybel cheese
D: 1/2 cup turkey chili
S: one babybel cheese and Health Smart Protien Hot Chocolate
this is the food I planned but I have no appetite so will try my best to eat it all
totals: 656 calories, 70 protein, 6 carbs, 32 fat
vitamin patches are on (Multi, Iron, B12, VitD/Calcium)
liquids - working on it....
Exercise - nada
STAY HEALTHY MY FRIENDS!!
Daisy 5'5" HW: 290 SW: 254 CW: 120
Nov 15, 2013: RNY - Toronto Western Hospital, Nov 2, 2017: Gallbladder removal & hernia repair
Sept 7, 2023: three +1 hernia's repaired in bowel
10+ years post op, living & loving life!
on 10/11/16 8:13 am
Missed you!
- High Weight before LapBand: 200 (2008)
- High Weight before RNY: 160 (2015)
- Lowest post-op weight: 110 (2016)
- Maintenance Weight: 120 (2017-2019)
- Battling Regain Weight: 135 (current)