Surgery Tomorrow...Terrified.
Back in 2012, I remember a good suggestion for pre-WLS anxiety: grab a pen and paper, write down all your fears, then write down dreams & wishes you hope for post-WLS. Fold it up, tuck it away in a safe place, and dig it out to read with celebration on your one-year surgerversary. May this reflection give you a moment of peace. Cheering you on, Lilly8985.
Congratulations, you're normal.
In a few months, you'll be so totally freaking happy. Just like the rest of us.
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.
Oh I feel for you. I was terrified before surgery. My husband had asked me for all the logins to the bank accounts and how to pay the bills. I went through all of my jewelry on who gets what if I don't make it out of surgery. It was so awful and I don't know why I was so scared. They take more precautions before this surgery than any other surgery I have ever had. Today is my 2 months post op and I am so glad I went through it. The first two weeks were the absolute worst and if you had asked me in the first week if you should do this I would have screamed NOOOOOO!!!!! But now I would tell everyone to do it. Everyone told me I would feel like a normal human being at about 4 months post op but I feel so great at just 2 months. I took pics of myself in front of our garage doors before we left for the hospital that day and on the month anniversaries I take new pics in the same outfit. I was so excited tonight to see the difference in just the first two months. I can't believe how much this surgery changed my life. Good luck you will be fine. Just remember to WALK!