What's on Your Wednesday Menu, RNYers?

RNY_elizabeth
on 6/15/16 7:23 am - TX
RNY on 10/06/15

Dealing with folks who are feeling judged is tough.  I have had a few small run ins like this.  

I generally try to re-frame my thinking about it as: They are judging themselves and I am only a prop in their internal play. It is truly not about me.

That helps in the casual interaction but to vacation with someone doing that would likely end up in someone losing an eye so I might reconsider a trip there too if I were you.

Hope you have a fantastic day today!

~E

Consultation weight: 265, Surgery date: 10/6/15, Goal: 150, Current weight: 129; 5'5, 46 years old

"I am basically food's creepy ex-girlfriend. I know we can't be together anymore but I just want to spend time hanging out" ~me, about why I love cooking so much post WLS

karenp8
on 6/15/16 7:27 am - Brighton, IL

Just look ato it as a wonderful learning experience that he may never have another chance to do. That always helped me when my boys had long distance trips. My youngest wentry to Costa Rica a year ago and got to zip line through the rainforest canopy. I can't even imagine it! His travels and experiences really helped him shape his job and career interests so he could go out of college knowing what he wanted to do with his life.

   

       

Kakesie
on 6/15/16 7:36 am
RNY on 02/19/16

My daughter got to go to Costa Rica about a year ago, too, Karen!  She got to zip-line, too!  What wonderful experiences kids get to have these days!

Deanna798
on 6/15/16 7:43 am, edited 6/15/16 12:43 am
RNY on 08/04/15

This is the detailed itinerary, and I'm really jealous and want to go with him!

Day 2 Quito landmarks

  Quito guided sightseeing tour Independence Plaza, Government Palace, San Francisco Church visit, Mitad del Mundo visit  

Day 3 Quito--Tena   Travel to the Upper Amazon Basin region via Papallacta Papallacta volcanic hot springs visit Cross over the Eastern Andes and descend into Tena Amazon Animal Rescue Center visit  

Day 4 Amazon Basin landmarks   Indigenous Kichwa community visit School visit Amazon jungle hike  

Day 5 White water rafting   Napo River white water rafting guided excursion  

Day 6 Tena--Baños   Travel to the cloud forest town of Baños Balsa wood workshop and handicrafts demonstration El Pailon Del Diablo waterfall excursion Explore the Río Pastaza Canyon  

Day 7 Baños landmarks   Church of the Virgin of Agua Santa visit Tungurahua Volcano hike Enjoy free time in Baños

Day 8 Baños--Quito

Cotopaxi National Park visit

Cotopaxi Volcano, Limpiopungo Lake

 

 

 

 

Age: 44 | Height: 5' 3" | Starting January 2015: 291 | RNY 8/4/15 with Dr. Arthur Carlin| Goal: 150

Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise. ~Proverbs 19:20

karenp8
on 6/15/16 7:51 am - Brighton, IL

Do you think we could all fit in his suitcases? 

   

       

Emiepie
on 6/15/16 10:11 am
RNY on 08/11/14

I can't believe she said that, totally not cool. I think you are wise to allow a cooling off period and then discussing with you hubby too. Sending hugs your way.

RNY 8/11/14 with Dr. Kelvin Higa PS Lipectomy 4/12/17 with Dr. John Burnett HW291.4/CW165/GW150

Deanna798
on 6/15/16 10:25 am
RNY on 08/04/15

I think the article I posted hit a little too close to home for her and she reacted badly.  I'm just dreading going to visit now, but will go if that is really what hubby wants.  

Age: 44 | Height: 5' 3" | Starting January 2015: 291 | RNY 8/4/15 with Dr. Arthur Carlin| Goal: 150

Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise. ~Proverbs 19:20

Emiepie
on 6/15/16 10:45 am
RNY on 08/11/14

When I have a few mins I am going to have to go read the article on FB. I didn't get a chance to read it last night.

RNY 8/11/14 with Dr. Kelvin Higa PS Lipectomy 4/12/17 with Dr. John Burnett HW291.4/CW165/GW150

mschwab
on 6/15/16 12:53 pm
RNY on 11/21/14

Uh oh.  Was it the article on sugar that I posted on FB that caused the woman to go off the deep end?

 Height: 5'7".  HW: 299, Program starting weight: 290, SW: 238, CW 138 - 12 pounds under goal!  

     

Deanna798
on 6/15/16 1:02 pm
RNY on 08/04/15

Yeah! Thanks a lot! Hehe, just teasing.  It was a good article. 

Age: 44 | Height: 5' 3" | Starting January 2015: 291 | RNY 8/4/15 with Dr. Arthur Carlin| Goal: 150

Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise. ~Proverbs 19:20

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