Man, now I feel self conscious

Baby bump & no baby, yeah I got a couple of tops like that, & I still like to wear them, but I've been pulling my bottoms up to cover up my stomach as much as I can so its not so obvious. So now my pants does double duty as a girdle. lol 

Now don't let her comment get you down, you look great! I've also been asked when are you expecting, sheesh who does that? Problem was she asked me years ago b4 I even thought of having wls! OMG, so embarrassing! I've got a B belly, muffin top belly, so I'm constantly wearing tops that are too big. 

I was thinking the same!! Love those arms . I have the true bingo arms . I was at a store one time and this woman was looking at cookies. This older lady said as she patted the woman's belly, when are you due ' the lady stood back and said she was not pg. The older lady said, ' then honey , you shouldn't be looking at those cookies' 

Oh snap! That old woman would have had cookies coming out of her nostrils if that had been me. 

Part of the problem is your so damn thin everywhere else!

I will admit I asked a woman when her baby was due. She said 2 years ago. DAMN! I got one nurse confused with another. I will tell you that I felt horrible. I still do. And she hated me the rest of the time she worked there. 

What the flying **** That really ****** me off on your behalf! I can't believe anyone would say that to you!! Or anyone for that matter. You do NOT look like you're pregnant. For real. That comment would have sent me into a tailspin of epic proportions though.

You should feel amazing about how far you've come. And how far you're going to go.

That person was clueless and should not be allowed to talk to other people.

First of all who the heck is so stupid to ask someone that. True story, my 21 year old daughter weighs in at a whopping 117 lbs and is a double zero, we went shopping for my granddaughters bday party and some one told asked her when her new baby was due. Well her face sank with embarrassment and I got mad ( momma bear kinda mad ) and explained a thing or 2 to said rude idiot. She gave birth to my beautiful grand daughter that was born weighing 9.7 and she's got herniated muscles but the style shirts that are in style right now are kinda maternity " esque ......says my husband . 

I'm sorry, people just have no class.  I would never ask someone of she was pregnant.  I have the same problem with my flabby fat belly too.  Even after losing 100 lbs I still have to buy XL tops in some styles.  Some fabrics are just too clingy as well.    You look fantastic!  Don't let the turkeys get you down.

You are beautiful, and have done an amazing job!  Everyone has their "trouble spots", yours is your tummy, mine is my thighs.....that teacher can take a flying leap!!

I am sorry someone said this to you. It sucks. You have worked hard to get where you are at. Don't let someone's comment ruin your day.

I know how you feel! Sometimes I look at myself in the mirror and hate that saggy skin that is just handfuls on my stomach. So I finally resorted to wearing sweet nothings camisoles. They aren't uncomfortable and help to such it in some. I'm also hoping for a rich relative I don't know about to leave me some money. And I wish my arms looked as good as yours. I've tightened up the muscles so look better than they did at first but they do look like saggy old lady arms. Of course,I am 56!