Eat something?

iloveravens
on 3/8/16 6:03 am
RNY on 08/13/14

Yes, this happens to me and I am by no means too skinny.  I'm only in the office every 3-4 weeks or so, and sometimes I'll go months without seeing people (because they haven't been in the office).  One guy actually shouted down the hall those exact words, "Hey, you need to eat something!!"  It was so embarrassing.  They just aren't used to seeing us at this size.  I don't think they are trying to be negative.  In their minds they are probably thinking they are paying us a compliment.  I'd rather people kept their comments about the size of my body to themselves though.

Lanie; Age: 43; Surgery Date (VSG): 8/12/14 w/complications resulting in RNY next day;

Height: 5' 6" SW: 249 Comfort Zone: 135-140 CW: 138 (10/13/17)

M1: -25 lbs M2: -12 M3: -13 M4: -7 M5: -11 M6: -10 M7: -7 M8: -7 M9: -3 M10: -8 M11: -4 M12: -4

5K PR - 24:15 (4/23/16) First 10K - 53:30 (10/18/15)

supershopper
on 3/8/16 10:25 am

I agree. Why is it that people feel they have the right to comment on your body now that you are thin? did they make comments to your face when you were fat? Its a form of harassment.

HW 305 SW 278 Surgery weight 225 GW 160 LW: 118.8

RNY 12/15/2015,

GB removal 09/2016,

Twisted bowel/hernia repair 08/2017

M1 Dec 2015-13.0, M2-7.0, M3-14.5, M4-9.4, M5-7.1, M6 9.8, M7-7.6 ,M8- 7.6, M-9 5.5, M10-6.4, M11- 2.2, M12 Dec 2016- 5.8

Kathyjs
on 3/9/16 9:31 am

13 years out, I still hear, are you sure you feel ok? I am not skinny. I eat many times a day, seems to me like I am always eating. But I eat an ounce or two at a time. My secret to keeping 100% of the excess weight off is portion control. I am not on a diet. This is my life. There is no, ' I am on vacation, I can eat' 

Most Active
What's on your Monday Menu?
Queen JB · 53 replies · 431 views
What's on your Wednesday Menu?
Queen JB · 50 replies · 341 views
What's on your Thursday Menu?
Queen JB · 37 replies · 393 views
What's on your Thursday Menu?
Queen JB · 32 replies · 156 views
What's on your Tuesday Menu?
Queen JB · 20 replies · 203 views
What?s on this Sunday?s menu?
Melody P. · 2 replies · 106 views
Recent Topics
What's on your Thursday Menu?
Queen JB · 32 replies · 156 views
What's on your Wednesday Menu?
Queen JB · 50 replies · 341 views
What's on your Tuesday Menu?
Queen JB · 20 replies · 203 views
What's on your Monday Menu?
Queen JB · 53 replies · 431 views
What?s on this Sunday?s menu?
Melody P. · 2 replies · 106 views
×