Alcohol
I am four years out and made the mistake of drinking for the past few years. When I don't drink, I don't miss it, but when I do drink (often) I binge and black out. I know I have a problem and right now I am as down as I can feel about it. My friends drink heavily and I didn't want them to know about the surgery so had drink foisted on me as they were unaware. I think I have just about reached rock bottom today. I feel shame beyond words. I can't believe I've fallen into this trap. The only upside right now is that being at bottom I can only go up. I guess I don't understand why this seems a much bigger problem with RNY compared to other surgeries. I suppose I have to take this one day at a time starting now. I'm surprised that there isn't a forum here for this specific problem I wish there was to hear stories about other people who h ave managed to overcome it. My recent bloodwork came back ok. My liver enzymes are slightly elevated but the doctor isn't worried about it because she doesn't know my drinking patterns. frankly I'm stunned my liver is in as good a shape as it's in, but I know that can't last. I just feel stuck in a rut and don't know how to get out of it.
There is a group for this Transfer Addiction
Post there and I'm sure you'll get some support, even though the group is a little quiet
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Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist
As you said- your are at the bottom. The only way from now is to go up.
As for liver enzymes- it may take a lot of drinking for them to go really up. In a meantime, you are killing your liver. You know it. Do you really need the liver enzymes to be high for you to know that? ,
I know that one I start having wine, I want more and more. So.. To make sure I don't, I do a few things - rules:
I don't drink and drive.
If I have a drink- it it's alaways with others. Don't drink alone.
If I have a drink at home- once the guest leave- I either give the leftover wine away or..dump it. I don't keep alcohol at home when I am there by myself.
Unless you can control what and how much you drink- you may be best just not drink at all.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
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