now that I don't have food to comfort me alot more feelings are popping up. 

-Yep..and sometimes I am surprised about how justified/unjustified they are.  For example, it really bugs me that my husband can "just not notice" the dishes in the dishwasher are clean and NOT put them away, yet I notice and have 5 more chores to take care of.

My stress relief-him not having clean clothes and me sitting on my butt to watch tv for once...jsut like he always does.