In HealthyHaileys Defense...
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
You got in trouble na na na na na naaaa ;) Hahahhaaa, I'm sorry, I couldn't help myself !! It's like you got called into The Principal's Office without having done anything wrong lol
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Maureen Tired of Living my Life in the Dark
Afternoon all, this will be my final post on this topic as I truly believe it's deteriorating as I type,
I simply wanted to state that to avoid all the drama one could simply turn the other cheek, in this case ignore the mbr in question.
I've taken ample time to read thru the posts in question and was in no way defending her actions or disparaging your options, it would seem that there is a clear divide in personalities and as many of you had said you can't help those that aren't willing to listen, I simply campaigned for the idea of agreeing to disagree and not to further antagonize either side. I chose to defend her simply due to her being vastly outnumbered. As I would do for anyone else. I was not taking her side as its evident you all have deep seeded and valid reasons for not liking each other. I was concerned for her mental state and nothing else.
As for accusing me of adding to the drama and/or stirring the pot i assure you nothing could be further from the truth i was lobbying for the opposite. Heart was in the right place.
I thank you for your kind words about my upcoming surgery and value the personal experiences and knowledge you veterans share.
Thanks for the lend of the soapbox :)
Keith