OT - Gus is growing like crazy!
Congratulations on getting a new puppy! ANY kind of puppy brings so much joy into a household. I have had terriers (mostly Scotties, one Westie) as an adult ****il I got Khan), but grew up with Chows. If it were not for the security/guarding provided by the Chows, I would have stuck to the 25-pound terriers.
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
Gus is such a fuzzball! I miss my dog so much and so does my cat. I agreed that he would be my last dog, as I am 60 and do not want to outlive a dog. I cannot even lift more than 5 pounds right now (the cat is 12) and I keep finding myself checking the shelter sites. It is awful. I do not think I feel complete without a dog in the family. Maybe down the line I could adopt an older dog, but I do not think my husband would be too happy. He has only been gone since 2/12, so I guess it is just still raw for me.
Yes, it is SO hard to lose a beloved dog. I still miss Khan, who has been gone almost a year now, and I miss Max terribly as well. I am on a waiting list for a female Scottie puppy, but am kind of hoping that my brain will continue to adjust to life without a Scottie. Life with just Gus would certainly be simpler. I definitely understand feeling like the home is incomplete without a dog. Heck, mine feels incomplete without a specific breed, LOL... But after almost 40 years of having a Scottie in the house, it is quite an adjustment.
I believe that, at the right time, the right dog might become available to you.
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
Gus and the goldens are gorgeous. I'm not even much of a dog person, but they make me smile big.
I am on my last pet, now, too, Thynnlynn, and the thought is saddening. But at 64 I don't want to leave my present or any future cat behind. Sailor loves me and would have a tough time being happy with anyone else. But I'll think about that tomorrow...
Your loss is still fresh, and I understand the grief. You have your cat and a husband, and I hope they're a comfort.