An unwelcome NSV
Height:5'1.5 RNY:11/30/11 HW:307 SW:234 CW:136 GW:140 (LOST 73 Lbs. PRE-OP)
Girl Nicky Minaj look-a-likes can be scary on a good day :) I'm sad that this happened to you and it really made me think. I've always been THAT friend who provides back up for my little friends too. Usually my BFM (big fat mouth) scares them off but I didn't think how my size played into that picture. My friend and I are headed out tonight for a little GNO - I'd better watch my step and not let my mouth write a check I no longer can cash....LOL!
Thi****s home with me. People are scary, and I'm not much of a fighter--verbally or physically. Now that I'm slightly smaller, I've found myself feeling more vulnerable. (I'm old, too, so I'm even more of a target for bullies.) I plan on keeping at weight training and staying bulky, but with muscle instead of fat.
It's funny how the thought of being thin doesn't appeal to me as it did when I was young. Thin sounds weak to me now. What does appeal is being strong! When I was young and super fit I felt confident. I want that back. It'll be the wrinkly edition, but I'll take it.
Strong is the new Skinny!