An unwelcome NSV

Dee.spunk
on 11/8/12 11:53 pm - Sacramento, CA
So, apperantly I am not tough looking anymore.

Some Nicky-Minaj-looking-lady attacked me. She was mad cause we both got to the same parking spot at the same time and I parked. She started cussing at me so I called security over (though they were no help) and she kept yelling. All I said was, "what I nice way to speak in front of your kids." So she kept cussing saying she was gonna beat my u-know-what and then she lunged at me and smacked me in the face. I told the security, "you saw that, call the police!"

After, when I was talking to my hubby I said, "you know, this wouldnt have happened when I was bigger" and he said, "I hate to say it, but you're right. Nobody messed with you back then."

Then my sister came over to take me out to dinner (gotta love her!) and she said, "I've been wanting to tell you something, but I have'nt figured out how, so I'm just gonna say it. You're little now. People arent scared of you anymore. You need to be more careful, like the rest of us. Before, you were our backup! If someone messed with us, we could always count on you to defend us. But now, you just can't. You could get hurt! You're not as big as you used to be, and for some reason, though you're the same size in height, since youre smaller, you look even shorter, and non-threatening. Please be careful!"

So, I guess I now look weak and vulnerable. I'm okay by the way. Just a little shook up. (And she really did look like Nicky Minaj and was over a foot taller than me, cause she was taller than my hubby who is 6'1"!)

Height:5'1.5 RNY:11/30/11 HW:307 SW:234 CW:136 GW:140 (LOST 73 Lbs. PRE-OP)

 


 

(deactivated member)
on 11/8/12 11:58 pm

WTH?!?! What is wrong with people.

I'm sorry that you had to go through that. Ill-acting people are everywhere and your unfortunate experience is evidence of that.

Glad that you're okay. Be safe

 

 

stanggirl89
on 11/9/12 12:02 am - DE

Glad your ok! Girl people are CRAZY nowadays so i agree with your sis be careful

JanBooth
on 11/9/12 12:05 am - KY
RNY on 09/25/12

That's insane...a parking space?  Good thing you are OK and that security was there when she attacked you, it could've been worse.  Geesh...crazy!

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~ Dr. Seuss~
        
onpurpose
on 11/9/12 12:20 am - Brandywine, MD
RNY on 11/05/12 with

What the heck did security do? Did the police come? I hope she got arrested...I'm a police officer and that's just plain crazy! I'm so sorry you had that stupid encounter over a parking space. I'm 6' even. My weight may change but mind and heart won't....I won't be bullied. No, Ma'am. If you didn't punch her in the mouth, you did the right thing :) But booooy I sure wish you could have :) :)

 

Be careful out there girlie....the world is full of freakin lunatics.

Lindah55
on 11/9/12 12:29 am - OR
RNY on 10/09/12

Everyone is right people out there are crazy. I can't believe peoples attitudes these days. ME ME ME! If someone is even looking 

at a parking spot I let them have it. I had a crazy man chase me around the parking lot once and it scared the tar out of me. Never

again. Protect youself.

hopefulstar
on 11/9/12 12:45 am - MA
RNY on 07/09/12
Wow that makes me angry. I'm glad ur ok and even though it can suck in a way I would take it as a compliment that u now look feminine and dainty. so sorry u went through that tho

10 lbs lost pre op      

        
Allen Y.
on 11/9/12 12:48 am - Garland, TX

In a similar incident the creaton keyed the hell out of  my car once I went inside. Always get the license plate number of anyone who threatens you.

If it had happened here, it's possible some one would have been shot.

 

 

     

Dee.spunk
on 11/9/12 1:12 am - Sacramento, CA
I did get the license plates, (she tried to run me over when I got behind her car to take a pic of it) and I let the sheriff know she had done that. Security there sucked. The man did nothing. But he got in trouble for doing nothing too. He got sent home. He should've put a stop to it before it got outta hand and he shouldn't have let her enter the store after. She didn't get arrested cause I didn't press charges and according to the sheriff it'd be pointless cause I wasn't hurt. They just gave me a case number in case I change my mind.

Height:5'1.5 RNY:11/30/11 HW:307 SW:234 CW:136 GW:140 (LOST 73 Lbs. PRE-OP)

 


 

Oxford Comma Hag
on 11/9/12 1:29 am

Wow, what a whackadoodle! (her, not you) I'm sorry that happened to you. 

 

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